mrssalvo
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Ellen, I''m so sorry. we experience that with my grandmother a few years ago. Literally hundreds of thousands of dollars gone to medical expenses and care basically in the last 3 years of her life. she lived until she was 93, but the final 3 years are what took it''s toll. we were grateful she did have the money to cover all of care but there was basically nothing left once she passed. it''s just awful to feel so helpless to stop it and yet knowing when someone needs more care than you can provide them yourself. big hugs to you, my mom will be 60 next year and although she''s hopefully a long way off to needing care, it''s something that is in the back of my mind.