I''ve been following this thread and just wanted to chime in with hugs and support.
I''m glad that you successfully searched your heart for the right answer and found it. Will be thinking of you in these coming days and weeks. Please take good care of yourself.
Alexis, just a big hug of support...
If you are going in alone (I can understand why, I did too) Keep in mind that all of us here are thinking of you, and sending you love and support...
When you feel ready, post back in and let us know how you are doing?
Good luck Alexis. I had an abortion many years ago, and while it was not pleasant emotionally it was not so bad. As mentioned, please follow Dr.''s directions, whether it be rest, no tub baths for a couple days and taking the antibiotics...maybe plan to have a pal over if you might like some company, someone you do not have to make tons of conversation with, but someone nurturing. Get a couple of great movies and plan to rest and be kind to yourself. This is a tough place to be, a tough thing to have to decide, but honestly all the options would be tough. Just know in time you will be fine and know you gave it a lot of thought and consideration, this wasn''t done lightly or without deliberation. ((Hugs)) and be at peace with it all.
I''ve been off pricescope for a few days, and I just came across your thread now, Alexis, and I read it from start to finish. I really admire your strength and your maturity. I''m not sure that at 25 I''d have handled this type of issue as well as you have, and I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Good luck and even though it may be hard, remember that you thought long and hard about this and that you did make the best decision that you could.
i hope you get a good friend to go with you.....and ''he'' is not a good friend. why is he still involved?!
ok, end of rant.
i am amazed and surprised at how candid many have been on this thread regarding their own experiences. i think they have given you good advice regarding how to take care of yourself tomorrow and during the weekend. please know that you will be in my thoughts.
I just saw your (whole) thread. I'm so sorry you are put in this position to make such a choice considering your relationship circumstances. I'm glad you have made a decision you feel is best for you. No matter which choice - they're all difficult.
I know people have really strong feelings about your (ex)boyfriend, but look at it this way. Close your eyes and think of the perfect husband FOR YOU. Really imagine the guy that is your life partner. What is he like? Would he ever treat you this way? How would he be taking care of you these last few days? We know this guy isn't thinking of you, he's thinking of himself. We just don't want your hard day to be any harder. We all hope your with someone who has your best interest in mind.
As far as today goes, you'll be okay. Wear loose sweatpants or drawstring pants, slip on shoes, and definitely wear thick comfy socks - it's the only thing besides a gown you'll have on for a while. Afterwards you won't feel like bending over and tying your shoes...just trying to help you be best prepared. HUGS! Keep a brave face girl - I'm thinking of you.
Hi Alexis,
Thinking of you this morning... I''m so glad you''re going to counseling and just know it will get easier and you will be a stronger person for having suffered through this. Best wishes to you.
I am so sorry to be so late to this. I am thinking of you and sending you a massive--gentle--virtual hug. May you have PEACE and comfort in your choice and feel lots of ease in your healing--we are all here for you and sending lots of care your way. Hang in their, sweetie, and take care of yourself. You''re going to be all right. ((((HUGS))))