- Jun 17, 2005
If he would take the hint and stop, that is great, I would ABSOLUTELY change all my contact data and tell my office not to put his calls through. Perhaps that slam in the face will wake him up and he will get the point. If not, you need to have a plan B. Not to stir the pot, but you simply do not know what he will or won''t do if you reject or ignore him further, so I would certainly keep a nice paper trail and recording trail of his bs. I would NOT see him or get into anything with him one on one, he wants to rile you and keep you in the mix. He is quite the moron to leave messages and things that can be later utilized against him, but it is good for you that he has, makes it easier for you. Can you get a message to him via a letter (which you keep a copy of) saying, Hey, we are DONE. Move on with your life. I owe you NOTHING. Stop calling and harrassing me. If you fail to do so, I will take legal action to ensure that you cannot contact me or harrass me in the future. (I think certain words are key, like harrassing...it sends a message to him. Do not say "bugging" me or something less strong, make a clear point). I would not mince words and I would not threaten what I cannot deliver, but just be clear and to the point. If he is not a TOTAL dunce he will back off. Good luck and I am sorry for you situation, this is insult on top of injury.