Thelastrealman
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Apr 6, 2009
- Messages
- 22
First off thank you for responding, I''ve learned a tremendous amount in a short time.
Please refer to the other thread of an explaination about its origins as well as my comments.
Back on topic...
I do not get off on having "power" over her. I truely think a material possesion should not bring someone to the brink of insanity like it has her. You guys think I''m kidding when I say she cries? I can guarentee she gets engagements shots from more angles then anyone on this forum. The poor girl gets tortured at work, and at home. Her mother is an Italian immigrant and has poor control over the English language and sometimes says downright mean things to her.
"Why dont you be nicer to him and he''ll want to marry you"
"Why hasnt he proposed yet?"
etc..
Friends at work and neighbors, classmates, everyone is engaged and getting knocked up asking her when will it be her day, its completely horrible and shes confided in me telling me these horrible things that make her feel inept. I''ve gotten to the point of almost going in the closet and giving it to her to stop the tears and silence the critics but I refuse to be a slave to societies bs pressures they put on women. I hate it more then anything and I have spend many hours, litterally, explaining these pressures and how wrong these people are and how truely romantic I want it to be.
"That poor girl" please, its a diamond, I already commited my love in a promise ring to her and treat her like the goddess. She knows I''m creative and she knows I want this to be a story she will love to tell forever, I want her to have that, this isnt all 100% about the girl here imho, this is about OUR life.
I hate waiting, the more I think about it the more is haunting me. How about the poor guy. The weather is just getting nice, I want to do it when I''m ready too, this is a massive commitment! I''m sorry if my personal feelings, lack of explaining and general dialog have rubbed people wrong but I''m suffering as well. This is making my head hurt when I''m at work just thinking of the million possibilities.
To the person who asked if we frequent NYC, the answer is no, we don''t. It was her idea since I do whatever she wants on that day, Once I enter NYC into the equation, you''re right, I''m screwed if I dont drop to my knee someplace, this leaves me with a ton of homework for romantic, memorable spots. Weather will place a factor though, I really want it to be special, I''m sorry if my definition of special has come off as controlling or like an @$$. Not sure what else to say other then thank you for the comments that helped shine some light of the female point of you, everything you''ve said has echoed what I''ve experienced or have had a hunch about.
Sorry for the wall of text and any grammer issues (if any)
Would love to read some more replies too.
Please refer to the other thread of an explaination about its origins as well as my comments.
Back on topic...
I do not get off on having "power" over her. I truely think a material possesion should not bring someone to the brink of insanity like it has her. You guys think I''m kidding when I say she cries? I can guarentee she gets engagements shots from more angles then anyone on this forum. The poor girl gets tortured at work, and at home. Her mother is an Italian immigrant and has poor control over the English language and sometimes says downright mean things to her.
"Why dont you be nicer to him and he''ll want to marry you"
"Why hasnt he proposed yet?"
etc..
Friends at work and neighbors, classmates, everyone is engaged and getting knocked up asking her when will it be her day, its completely horrible and shes confided in me telling me these horrible things that make her feel inept. I''ve gotten to the point of almost going in the closet and giving it to her to stop the tears and silence the critics but I refuse to be a slave to societies bs pressures they put on women. I hate it more then anything and I have spend many hours, litterally, explaining these pressures and how wrong these people are and how truely romantic I want it to be.
"That poor girl" please, its a diamond, I already commited my love in a promise ring to her and treat her like the goddess. She knows I''m creative and she knows I want this to be a story she will love to tell forever, I want her to have that, this isnt all 100% about the girl here imho, this is about OUR life.
I hate waiting, the more I think about it the more is haunting me. How about the poor guy. The weather is just getting nice, I want to do it when I''m ready too, this is a massive commitment! I''m sorry if my personal feelings, lack of explaining and general dialog have rubbed people wrong but I''m suffering as well. This is making my head hurt when I''m at work just thinking of the million possibilities.
To the person who asked if we frequent NYC, the answer is no, we don''t. It was her idea since I do whatever she wants on that day, Once I enter NYC into the equation, you''re right, I''m screwed if I dont drop to my knee someplace, this leaves me with a ton of homework for romantic, memorable spots. Weather will place a factor though, I really want it to be special, I''m sorry if my definition of special has come off as controlling or like an @$$. Not sure what else to say other then thank you for the comments that helped shine some light of the female point of you, everything you''ve said has echoed what I''ve experienced or have had a hunch about.
Sorry for the wall of text and any grammer issues (if any)
Would love to read some more replies too.