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I think that he has to be the one to set a budget or you risk him always reminding you of his underlying resentment at buying something he doesn’t think has “value”. You, in turn, may feel that your needs and wants are not valuable to him. It could be a mess. He needs to come up to the plate with a figure he is comfortable with. You can spend literally any amount on a diamond ring, there is no norm. I’m getting a sense that he won’t want to go much above 1 carat. If you are financially sound, I think that’s a shame. The ring is a symbol of your value to him since that is the meaning it has to you.