Amethyste
Ideal_Rock
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Date: 6/30/2009 11:33:52 PM
Author: thing2of2
Date: 6/30/2009 9:22:58 PM
Author: Haven
Date: 6/30/2009 4:00:14 PM
Author: gwendolyn
Sorry, but it gets under my skin a little bit when people get overly involved in appraising what''s ''appropriate'' for someone else, no matter how well they know you. I don''t even think it''s my mother''s place to know details of my finances, and she knows me better than probably anyone. My finances are between my partner and myself, and should be respected as off-limits.
I agree 100% with Gwennie.
You never know how people prioritize or what they do without in order to own what they believe is worth it. I''m 28, DH is 39, and I wear a 2 ct cushion e-ring, for which we paid cash. I''m a high school teacher, DH is a muscle specialist, we have collectively earned two bachelor''s degrees, three master''s degrees, and countless certifications in our particular specialties.
But none of that really matters. We know exactly what we want, what we value, and what we are willing to sacrifice in order to live exactly the way we want to, and according to our values. Others'' assessments of what we ''should'' or ''should not'' own don''t matter to us, because we are the ones who have to be happy with the lives we''ve created for ourselves.
Ditto Gwen and Haven. People can spend their money however they want. Last time I checked, PS was a diamond forum, yes? All diamonds are a frivolous luxury item, no matter how much money you make and how small your diamond is.
I think a thread on how hard we''ve all worked and how we paid for our diamonds are is more than a little ridiculous and unnecessary.
Oh ooopps, I am sorry that I bored everyone on how I paid for my diamond.... My bad!