CharmCity
Rough_Rock
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- Aug 7, 2008
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After reading this thread... https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/i-dont-know-if-i-love-my-ring.118588/ ... I started really wondering about The Real Ladies of Pricescope.
I''m trying not to be judgmental but it absolutely blows my mind to have a 25 year old girl upset that her husband to be ONLY bought her a 1.8 karat absolute perfect ring, even if they are uber-rich. Instead of being mortified, I''d like to be educated.
I do understand that in different social circles and different parts of the country (or world) there are far different norms and I''m very curious about how all of you live.
I would REALLY like to know what kinds of jobs you and your husbands have and how they relate to these GORGEOUS rings that have me addicted to this site. In my head you have to be a millionaire to be able to have a 2+ karat diamond!
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Just for fun, I''ll start.
Me -
36 years old, animator for online educational software company.
Own my house, master''s degree in animation, 80+ grand in student loan debt.
Him -
30 years old, union steamfitter apprentice, high school education but will begin out-earning me next month.
Us -
We are trying to pay off debt from my loans and his past screw ups. Married for one month. In the next year or two we would like to have kids and be able to afford for me to be a stay at home mom so we try to live simply. I fell in love with my ring on a website and stalked it for two years until it went on sale.
The Ring -
One karat, old European cut, VS2, I color (but faces up completely white due to medium fluorescence which is so exciting to me), ruby halo in platinum setting.
The Frame of Reference -
We live in Baltimore and own a modest row house. We budgeted for the ring together, paying cash for half and putting the rest on a fixed, low interest credit card that we paid off in less than one year. My ring is on the large size for my circle of friends who are mostly in similar financial situations to us, but they have better toys (cars, tvs, etc.) The exception being one friend who has two karats of maul store frozen spit and my sister''s which is much bigger and brighter than mine!
I''m trying not to be judgmental but it absolutely blows my mind to have a 25 year old girl upset that her husband to be ONLY bought her a 1.8 karat absolute perfect ring, even if they are uber-rich. Instead of being mortified, I''d like to be educated.
I do understand that in different social circles and different parts of the country (or world) there are far different norms and I''m very curious about how all of you live.
I would REALLY like to know what kinds of jobs you and your husbands have and how they relate to these GORGEOUS rings that have me addicted to this site. In my head you have to be a millionaire to be able to have a 2+ karat diamond!
________________
Just for fun, I''ll start.
Me -
36 years old, animator for online educational software company.
Own my house, master''s degree in animation, 80+ grand in student loan debt.
Him -
30 years old, union steamfitter apprentice, high school education but will begin out-earning me next month.
Us -
We are trying to pay off debt from my loans and his past screw ups. Married for one month. In the next year or two we would like to have kids and be able to afford for me to be a stay at home mom so we try to live simply. I fell in love with my ring on a website and stalked it for two years until it went on sale.
The Ring -
One karat, old European cut, VS2, I color (but faces up completely white due to medium fluorescence which is so exciting to me), ruby halo in platinum setting.
The Frame of Reference -
We live in Baltimore and own a modest row house. We budgeted for the ring together, paying cash for half and putting the rest on a fixed, low interest credit card that we paid off in less than one year. My ring is on the large size for my circle of friends who are mostly in similar financial situations to us, but they have better toys (cars, tvs, etc.) The exception being one friend who has two karats of maul store frozen spit and my sister''s which is much bigger and brighter than mine!