I opened this thread thinking she was starting an online pawn shop, I was so excited!
I’ll see myself out now….
So all her “sex work” is online and she has no physical
contact with others? Kind of like a playboy model only
more explicit? Tbh I can see why she enjoys it. She feels
Like the star of her show. I don’t think she’s harming anyone. Her relatives are the sickos if they are subscribing to her account! That’s a whole other issue.
Hopefully she is smart enough not to get stalked by obsessive fans and tbh, that would be my only concern.
My understanding of OF is that you get as naked as you want, basically you can do a foot show if thats all you wanted to do (hey some people are into that)
Not sure I wouldn't have done this at her age if I'd had a nice butt. No chance. However looking at this another way, if a handsome, well-educated young man chose this work instead of a career in which he stretched and learned and grew as a person, I would probably think less of him. If we're equal as women, the same applies to her.
Jambalaya, I applaud your concern. You and I might be around the same age, and this has to be very difficult for you to witness.
This post is so kind, it made my eyes a little wet. Thank you. It is hard, and the question is, who knows where she goes from here? Thin end of the wedge and all that. Together with her history of abuse (it seems that it's still abuse even if she doesn't recognize it as such), I'm feeling worried about her general life outcomes in the future.
This post is so kind, it made my eyes a little wet. Thank you. It is hard, and the question is, who knows where she goes from here? Thin end of the wedge and all that. Together with her history of abuse (it seems that it's still abuse even if she doesn't recognize it as such), I'm feeling worried about her general life outcomes in the future.
@Jambalaya, I have three nieces, and my heart would shatter if any of them chose to do something like this. I understand where you're coming from.
I think I've figured out why I hate the idea of s*x work so much: It's because it seems completely soul-less to me. To give sexual services, of any kind, to a man that you would never choose to sleep with or otherwise share your body with, is the ultimate depressing scenario. Even if you're hooking up, it's because you want to do it with THAT person. The idea of s*x as transactional is so depressing I can't describe it.
Another thing about the site, apart from basically forcing you to use your real name, is that it creates "relationships" between you and your subscribers. Yes, there's a lot of free pawn in the internet, but apparently this site is about creating special content for subscribers, and you send them text messages and basically strike up a "relationship" with them, which they pay for. I can't imagine any environment more ripe for gaining stalkers.
Right, but on her regular IG account, her post with the links to her new OF promises that she will be naked, invites everyone to " CUM PLAY" and her images with stickers on her IG account are clearly VERY explicit.
And it's all under her real name, and her workplace, which is a public venue, is on her IG!!!!!
Unless people would be totally OK with their own daughter being a s*x worker - of any kind - then they shouldn't think it's OK for any other woman to do, either.
@Gussie So, you're not okay with it, that's understandable. There are a lot of thing I advocate for which (touch wood) haven't touched my family.
You're not okay with it, again that's completely understandable, but what would you DO if it was your adult child? Because let's be real, there's really nothing you can do.
Some people on this thread are purposely confusing someone saying, back off, she's an adult who is free to make her own choices, with being "totally OK with their own daughter being a s*x worker". Those two things often aren't the same thing even though OP has spent the last 5 pages trying to convince us all they are.
I don't have any direct experience yet, but my mum and aunt regularly bond over their difficult L children (both have L names). The adults whose choices they don't agree with, but who they also know the only way to be involved in their chaotic lives is to back off and not judge.
all of the facts and research that say decriminalization is the best way forward