AllAboardTheBlingTrain
Ideal_Rock
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I find it disturbing that the OP finds any sex act not between a loving couple gross. Now don’t get me wrong I’m a 50yo woman who has been with the same man since I was 18. Would I make a s.xtape or nude pictures - nope not on your life but as 18yo’s starting our lives together yes we did look at pawn. It was never a major part of our relationship and was something that died a natural death during our 20’s from memory but it was never disgusting, dirty or forced upon either one of us.
As parents of two teenagers and one preteen we have had plenty of discussions with them about pawn and how it is not how most relationships work. That not every body - both male and female - looks like those on the screen. That their bodies are their own and no one has any right to see or touch without their permission.
I would never demonise any job - even s.. work because unless you live their lives, you don’t know what and why they are doing it.
In some cases pawn us a tool required by some - I know a woman with advanced MND who has given her husband a number of hall passes as she is locked within her body. Should that 38yo man not experience any sexual experiences or is watching pawn for release the “lesser of all evils”?
Nothing in this life is black or white - some people enjoy sex more then others, some dislike all aspects - but no one should impose “their” ideals on a person of age that seemingly has chosen to do something that is not illegal IMO.
I’ll jump in here and also add that sexual acts between two consenting adults are not gross in and of themselves. I think OP mentioned that they also find certain acts/positions gross and demeaning even if they occur within the confines of a loving couple. I disagree with that as well. Would’ve made that point earlier but it slipped my mind in my previous comment.
Everyone enjoys different things, and as long as everyone involved in the act is doing so enthusiastically and consensually; and is of age; not under the influence, and is being carried out in a way that doesn’t cause them permanent harm - I don’t think it’s anyone else’s place to decry it.