LtlFirecracker
Ideal_Rock
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I agree it is not an excuse, but yes they have a choice and they have consequences to what ever choice they make. My problems comes when we don't offer them all the choices. Abstinence is a choice with the least health consequences, but they may perceive the consequences of loosing the relationship as worse than the possible outcome of sex. We all know the consequences of unprotected sex. Safer sex has consequences as well. There are side effects to birth controls, condoms are effective but not 100%. I am not saying "here is your Yaz, have a good time." I am saying, you need to sit them down, go over all the options and the pros and cons of each. Some teens will come to the conclusion that BC has too many side effects and they will wait. Some teens will think that is perfect for them, afterall they may have other health issues that BC will help with and they are having sex no matter what. And of curse, some will get the pill, forget to take it and end up pregnant. Not offering a choice because of their age is something that I do not feel is right.
If we could get people (adolescents and adults) to make the right decision about many areas in life (smoking, diet, sex), we would drastically cut back many of the top diseases in the world that kill people (lung cancer, heart disease, AIDS in Africa). Sadly, if I have learned one thing it is that I cannot control individual behavior. My job would be so easy if I could. I want to keep people healthy despite their imperfect choices.
If we could get people (adolescents and adults) to make the right decision about many areas in life (smoking, diet, sex), we would drastically cut back many of the top diseases in the world that kill people (lung cancer, heart disease, AIDS in Africa). Sadly, if I have learned one thing it is that I cannot control individual behavior. My job would be so easy if I could. I want to keep people healthy despite their imperfect choices.