TracyBear
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 10, 2013
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You gals know that I've been struggling with my Ering for quite some time. The second day that we received our diamond, I wanted to exchange it for a lower quality stone because this stone was too small for me. However, my fiance formed an unnatural bond with the stone and highly suggested that we keep it for rarity's sake. I wanted to see him happy so I kept the stone with a suppressed intention of upgrading it myself in the future. Even though I struggled to postpone the upgrade since it's a big hassle, I felt so uneasy about settling that I've started looking at upgrades again.
Recently, my man made an intriguing offer. If he got me the Hermes bag that I've been eyeing for years, will I keep his Ering, as is, forever? Monetarily speaking, it's going to be a "no." My 30cm togo leather Birkin is only ~20K max so it's totally not worth a LIFETIME of upgrades. Besides, I want to get my dream bag by myself as it marks my transition of becoming a financially stable and independent woman. But I did find it ironically sweet that he offered to get me a bag that he once mocked. Every time I'm ready for the upgrade, he shows me how desperately he wants to retain this specific stone and I can't pull the trigger. I think this stone will have to grow on me.
Fun question for the gals. Besides your man's love, is there anything that would make you give up a lifetime of upgrades?
Recently, my man made an intriguing offer. If he got me the Hermes bag that I've been eyeing for years, will I keep his Ering, as is, forever? Monetarily speaking, it's going to be a "no." My 30cm togo leather Birkin is only ~20K max so it's totally not worth a LIFETIME of upgrades. Besides, I want to get my dream bag by myself as it marks my transition of becoming a financially stable and independent woman. But I did find it ironically sweet that he offered to get me a bag that he once mocked. Every time I'm ready for the upgrade, he shows me how desperately he wants to retain this specific stone and I can't pull the trigger. I think this stone will have to grow on me.
Fun question for the gals. Besides your man's love, is there anything that would make you give up a lifetime of upgrades?