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Phoenix|1307860013|2943877 said:Yssie|1307838719|2943663 said:Phoenix -another idea - will GOG take your 2.5 BGD pendant as a trade to add to this project? You don't seem particularly in love with it, aside from it being another sparkly in your collection - and it's a lovely stone, one GOG may be interested in acquiring...
Fantastic choice on the Octavia - maybe a 6ct Octavia is in the books afterall
My 2c on the tangent - I've done the gift card thing, to save for something and remove temptation to use those funds for some other unnecessity - it does help me focus! DH does it too. So if Phoenix wants to use sparkly gift cards of gigantic denominations - well, I think it's pretty obvious that this Octavia purchase is not the financial sacrifice for her, in her situation, that it would be for others. Just get that 2.5 on your finger (it is really criminal to not even *see* it!) before prices triple
Yes, a 6ct Octavia is not a bad idea at all, is it?!
Hmmmm, not a bad idea to ask Jon either abt the pendant. It'd depend on what he can offer....though I suspect that he won't buy it as a trade-in, merely to offer to have it put on consignment, which is what I was planning to ask Grace at JbEG to do (she's a sweetheart btw). DH told me that I should just keep the pendant since I got such a good price for it (well before the recent price increases) and he did mention that I don't have any pendant and should have one, he he! He's well trained, that one!
I was thinking also that the 2.6ct (after I'm done wearing it as a pendant) would make a nice centre piece for my future Riviere, and I do plan to have that at some point as I do wear (pearl) necklaces and would love a Riviere made up with BGD diamonds to go with my evening / ball gowns (though this project would be much much later down the road, after this Octavia project).
Thank you, Yssie. And abt the 2.5ct Octavia, yes ma'am!
Phoenix|1307858300|2943862 said:luv2sparkle|1307827346|2943536 said:Phoenix|1307815282|2943370 said:luv2sparkle|1307799084|2943216 said:That looks like an awesome stone Phoenix! I don't know how you not set it and wear it though! I will wear it for you, if you want.
Thank you, luv2sparkle. Setting is quite expensive though, ya'know. Hey, maybe you can ask Jon if he could let you come and play with it once in a while?
you know, I am heading to NY in just a couple of weeks, so I am sure I could manage a trip to Long Island and GOG! Excuse me, Jon, I would like to drool over Ms Phoenix's 1.33 Octavia please. Of course, she said I could!
He he!
Actually, that's not a bad idea at all. I'd love to hear your opinion of it once you've seen it in person. Really, please?
Phoenix|1307860013|2943877 said:Yssie|1307838719|2943663 said:Phoenix -another idea - will GOG take your 2.5 BGD pendant as a trade to add to this project? You don't seem particularly in love with it, aside from it being another sparkly in your collection - and it's a lovely stone, one GOG may be interested in acquiring...
Fantastic choice on the Octavia - maybe a 6ct Octavia is in the books afterall
My 2c on the tangent - I've done the gift card thing, to save for something and remove temptation to use those funds for some other unnecessity - it does help me focus! DH does it too. So if Phoenix wants to use sparkly gift cards of gigantic denominations - well, I think it's pretty obvious that this Octavia purchase is not the financial sacrifice for her, in her situation, that it would be for others. Just get that 2.5 on your finger (it is really criminal to not even *see* it!) before prices triple
Yes, a 6ct Octavia is not a bad idea at all, is it?!
Hmmmm, not a bad idea to ask Jon either abt the pendant. It'd depend on what he can offer....though I suspect that he won't buy it as a trade-in, merely to offer to have it put on consignment, which is what I was planning to ask Grace at JbEG to do (she's a sweetheart btw). DH told me that I should just keep the pendant since I got such a good price for it (well before the recent price increases) and he did mention that I don't have any pendant and should have one, he he! He's well trained, that one!
I was thinking also that the 2.6ct (after I'm done wearing it as a pendant) would make a nice centre piece for my future Riviere, and I do plan to have that at some point as I do wear (pearl) necklaces and would love a Riviere made up with BGD diamonds to go with my evening / ball gowns (though this project would be much much later down the road, after this Octavia project).
Thank you, Yssie. And abt the 2.5ct Octavia, yes ma'am!
omc111|1307996842|2944951 said:In my opinion, it's not up to us to judge anyone else. I, for one, have my hands full keeping my own brain straight. I can't imagine trying to analyze someone else's!
makemepretty|1308014442|2945200 said:Green with envy was just voicing her concern. I read it as just that, concern. It would have been one thing to just post the "here's my new diamond" but the story behind it was what struck a chord. On a diamond board, this might seem like a plan but in the real world, anything to an extreme is out of the norm. I think anyone who's read a lot of posts could see that and be worried. But since this is not a psychology board, I'll refrain from pointing out the obvious problems with this train of thought(or the many many many other ones that prevailed before this). I guess it's not appropriate to show concern for someone you don't know and just hope that someday, they'll find the happiness they think they are constantly looking for eventually.
A pretty diamond is always worth taking a look at though and an asscher is so breathtakingly beautiful, even if it's one the person will never possess, it still is worth clicking on the link. It just seemed out of place on Show Me the Bling. The one that sold at auction was seriously, the prettiest ring I've ever seen on here.
Thank you.Begonia|1308021562|2945277 said:Well I'm not ashamed to say I'm a little bit 'green with envy'. I accept whatever you feel is right for you to do in acquiring your 6 c'er. Is there a thread with pictures of your blingies that everyone keeps referring to?
kenny|1307887814|2943999 said:Phoenix, I just thought of some other stuff. . .
Good aspects of what you are doing:
1. When you do trade up there is NO chance GOG can reject the diamond as being damaged since it never left their possession.
2. It can't get lost or stolen while in your possession or in the mail.
3. No shipping fees or duty/customs/taxes
4. You do not have to pay to insure it
Actually, instead of putting that 1.33 Octavia on hold, I would make that money downpayment towards my 6-ct Octavia.
That way someone else may be able to buy and enjoy it and I would feel one step closer to that Rock of Ages.
It would also sort of seal the deal on the 6-ct.
BTW, have you considered a blue or pink Octavia diamond?
I would give my left . . . . . . oh never mind.
bethprov|1307889491|2944019 said:Phoenix|1307860013|2943877 said:Yssie|1307838719|2943663 said:Phoenix -). DH told me that I should just keep the pendant since I got such a good price for it (well before the recent price increases) and he did mention that I don't have any pendant and should have one, he he! He's well trained, that one! e:
Ummm, can you please explain to me how this happens to a man, you are my hero !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
natascha|1307910024|2944204 said:I find Phoenix reasoning completely logical. It seems to me that some people don't get that Phoenix is not doing this for investment purposes. There is a large emotional component in this plan to achieve her 6 ct goal. If I am not mistaken Phoenix enjoys the whole process of looking, thinking and actual buying of her jewelry. By doing it this way she gets to enjoy the process several times while at the same time saving up to her goal.
Additionally, for the next upgrade which does not seem to be to far down the road she will also get to enjoy the stones during the time she saves up and she will know for certain if an asscher is for her.
Both of these emotional components more than make up for the interest rate her money could be earning if invested otherwise. Phoenix seems like one smart cookie to me and I am sure that she does not spend all her surplus cash on jewelry. Some people like to drive a new car every year, others like to buy jewelry. Just because a person comes from a different environment than you do and makes other choices than the ones you would make does not give anyone the right to say nasty things.
Phoenix- I can not wait to which stone you will pick out next. Are you going to try some warmer combos to see if you like them?
DandiAndi|1308027589|2945351 said:Phoenix, I actually can relate somewhat to your plan
I have been hankering for the longest time for a full eternity ring with 25-30pt stones, and seem to acquire other 'stuff' along the way, but the money I save for things like shinies just seems to be eaten up by other stuff... who knows what, but it just does!! (lbbaber, I'm hearin' ya! ) I've just paid for, and am waiting for delivery of, a full eternity from IDJ with 10 pointers, and the plan is to upgrade until I reach the desired size. That way the money's locked away and I can save the next 'installment' with more ease and enjoy knowing the bling is growing! Kind of like a loooong layby
Your Octavia is absolutely phenomenal