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I don't associate being "thin" with good sex. I DO associate "confidence" with good sex. There are some amazingly beautiful radiant confident women who no one would call "thin"... they are beautiful. They know their self worth & they exude confidence - that makes them sexy in my opinion. Most men I discuss such things with agree.I think it is interesting people associate being thin with good sex. That has not always been my personal experience.
I wonder if these women who's husbands have left we're truly happy people that were blindsided... happy to see their spouse when they got home... Happy with themselves whatever weight, enjoying life, and nurturing their relationship - not just with their spouse but with themselves...
A girlfriend of mine had an affair. At 1st I was mortified. She then explained her husband NEVER touched her except when he wanted sex. Never hugged her. Never held her hand. Never touched her arm... her hair... Never cuddled. Never put his arm around her. I gave her a long giant hug & cried. She was so deprived of affection that she stepped outside the marriage to get some. I'm not saying she was right - I'm not going to be that judge - I do see why/how it happened. If he & his friends knew, which they don't, I'm sure the story would be different. There are parts I'm sure I don't know. There are always 3 versions of every story. His, hers, and the truth. I just hugged & hugged her & let her vent. I don't think any different of him or her. No one is perfect. They are still together & in a better place now thankfully!