Callie - whoa! Man, that is intense. Had another women for years and she was pregnant? That really is something else.
The husband who walked out before Christmas is definitely shady. There were signs a long time ago that something was up - i.e. coming home from a really long full day out-of-town business trip and immediately laundering the clothes he was wearing, even though it was midnight. I'd believe anything of him. But what about the one who has been steady and consistent about the weight issue for many years and says he can take it no longer? He could be lying too, of course, but he has maintained his stance on the weight for so long, and if it looks like a duck, talks like a duck, etc and yes, my friend is very overweight, so it all fits together in a consistent manner. Maybe, for some, it really is all about the weight?
The husband who walked out before Christmas is definitely shady. There were signs a long time ago that something was up - i.e. coming home from a really long full day out-of-town business trip and immediately laundering the clothes he was wearing, even though it was midnight. I'd believe anything of him. But what about the one who has been steady and consistent about the weight issue for many years and says he can take it no longer? He could be lying too, of course, but he has maintained his stance on the weight for so long, and if it looks like a duck, talks like a duck, etc and yes, my friend is very overweight, so it all fits together in a consistent manner. Maybe, for some, it really is all about the weight?