katharath
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The fallout from the wreckage caused by this administration is going to haunt us for a very long time
http://thehill.com/policy/healthcar...tion-advocate-to-lead-federal-family-planning
In a Huff Post article, this woman is claimed to have stated that there is an "undisputed" link between abortion and breast cancer.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry...82ae4b05c397680d921?ncid=inblnkushpmg00000009
Click on the title to go to the original article.
Interesting article., thanks. You reference another one of my favs, critical thinking. So important, and yet, IMO, another reason we are in the mess we are in today with folks not being able to differentiate
opinion pieces from fact.
However, the reality is that while a lot of people rant on endlessly about how we're not teaching critical thinking, another lot of people - a portion of which are actually part of the first lot - don't like it when their kids turn that critical thinking on their own parents' sacred cows. If you teach kids to question and to think things through enough to support their own stances, they sometimes find the stances they inherited, are not what they would think....if they could think. This can be extremely upsetting to parents who are deeply invested in having their kids be little clones of them in the idea department. I've seen this mindset in action more than once. Teach 'em how to think but not too much or they'll start asking uncomfortable questions.
You raise such a important point. I think that the ultimate goal of parenting should be to raise children to be truly their own person. Acceptance of the uniqueness of a child, their ability to makes their own choices, to think and form their own opinions, I imagine is very, very hard. The actual act of having children is the easy part, raising them, now there's the hard part. I know that I would have failed. (At least to achieve what I would have wanted) Way to much baggage is my closet.
When I was 6 I had a friend who lived next door. Her family was Baptist. Naturally, they invited me to go with my friend. My mom allowed it - they were nice people and she was not really familiar with the Baptist teachings. On one of the trips to her church, they showed us a movie about the rapture - think a prehistoric Left Behind movie, complete with abandoned cars, children without parents, that sort of thing. I was freaked. I knew I wasn't always good, and I was terrified that my mother (who was good in my eyes) would be taken away and I'd be alone!
So after a few days of her normally sunny child moping around, she said, "OK, what's wrong?" And I dished - she'd be gone, I'd be here!!!
My mom, that lovely no-nonsense "recovering Catholic", said to me, "OK, first thing, I don't believe that and I'm not going anywhere. Second, I don't approve of people who try to scare children, so if someone scares you, you come talk to ME about it first. You do not have to believe something just because it's something an adult told you. You have a good mind and you can use it to make your own decisions."
It was a long time ago, but I have a vivid memory of it, because being told you didn't have to believe adults all the time was pretty heady stuff for a 6 year old in 1968, long before "critical thinking" became a buzz phrase.
I would think raising a thinking kid is only hard when you haven't engaged in thinking deeply yourself. My mother was not highly formally educated, but she was a deep thinker about a lot of things, and read a lot, and had left the Catholic Church (due to the hypocrisy and ugliness witnessed while part of it), which is pretty dang daring after 12 years of parochial school. So she knew just how hard it was to think away from her raising, and so wasn't personally threatened at the idea that I might think away from her one day too. We had great conversations about life, the universe, and everything, especially when I was a teenager. She always wanted to hear what I thought and why, and never punished or disapproved of what I was thinking. A lot of kids get heavy pressure to conform mentally. I was lucky that I did not.
Good memories.
Gosh, missing my lovely mom today, can you tell?
Kath, I just wanted to say thanks for starting this thread. I also want to thank all of the posters that add to it. For me, DJT being elected to the highest office in our democratic republic has been so surreal. So upsetting. It has nothing to do with politics, and everything to do with common sense, decency, having some sort of moral compass,. It simply makes me feel better to know that there are people that feel the same way that I do. It really makes me feel better to at least get a laugh out of some of this. To blow off steam. Sometimes when I post in this thread, I think to myself, egads.. enough already, but it is just a never ending deluge of unbelievable-ness. I couldn't access a better word. Anyway, you all make what is going on more endurable.
I really love that story. Thank you so much for sharing it. It's wonderful to have a mom (family) that you love and respect enough to miss. Makes me teary.
This sentence is something what really resonates with me, "I would think raising a thinking kid is only hard when you haven't engaged in thinking deeply yourself. My mother was not highly formally educated, but she was a deep thinker about a lot of things, and read a lot.."
I love people that can think and reflect and change, deep thinking leads to more openness and acceptance of others (and yourself) in the world. I personally get frustrated because it's hard for many people to stop and think. To reflect. It takes work. Ugh. Easier to not think. Good relationships take work, engagement and honesty. Nothing is magic. Your mom sounds like she was an amazing person and I can see it in your posts, through you.
Interesting read Deb, thanks for posting.I didn't know what thread to put this in, but I decided that this would be a good one. I had never seen this theory before and at first it seemed bizarre to me. After reading the article, however, it didn't seem so farfetched. Apparently the author of the piece is a physician. He may be wrong, but sometimes people in a field who have seen something occur many times get a feeling for when and where it may pop up. He could be right in his hunch. I guess there would only be one way to know: a blood test.
AGBF
Link...https://newrepublic.com/article/140702/medical-theory-donald-trumps-bizarre-behavior
I didn't know what thread to put this in, but I decided that this would be a good one. I had never seen this theory before and at first it seemed bizarre to me. After reading the article, however, it didn't seem so farfetched. Apparently the author of the piece is a physician. He may be wrong, but sometimes people in a field who have seen something occur many times get a feeling for when and where it may pop up. He could be right in his hunch. I guess there would only be one way to know: a blood test.
AGBF
Link...https://newrepublic.com/article/140702/medical-theory-donald-trumps-bizarre-behavior
I don't think Trump has mental problems/disease. I think he's uninformed, unprepared, unprincipled, and too lazy to make the effort to do better. He's basically a student who had always coasted through classes, but now is getting called out.
Combine his ignorance, unreadiness, and laziness, with a huge ego and the belief that he's smarter than anyone (than previous presidents, than interviewers, etc) and you get this shit show. You get Trump granting interviews likely thinking he would be able to control the narrative (like he did during the campaign) but getting flustered now that reporters and the public are demanding substantive answers.
Because of his insufficient understanding of the nuances of and his lack of position on issues (driven by having no guiding principles and ignorance) he can't give intelligent answers. He can't even stick to talking points because he's too lazy to learn them well enough. He therefore either reverts to campaign mode (when he was given a pass by reporters) or parrots things he's heard even though he doesn't understand them.
That bizarre Andrew Jackson tangent was probably just something he heard someone talk about and that someone may have had a point, but when Trump tried to make the same point he failed comically because 1) it was not his idea and 2) he hadn't thought about or learned the arguments well enough to be able discuss it intelligently.
I think he seems to have gotten worse because he's being (more aggressively?) questioned and he's really stressed by the job. (In my dotage, I find my brain doesn't function as well as it used to under extreme stress.)
Anyway, I wouldn't mind if Trump is declared mentally incompetent, but I think he's merely incompetent.
Me three, @katharath - especially with video of cases of beer being rolled in to "celebrate."
None of the 7 reps in Hillary-won districts in CA voted against it. Seems like a pretty YUGE mistake. For a lot of them, actually. It's not going to pass the senate anywhere near as-is and the CBO score is said to be out sometime next week. All for what?
I saw this too. I'm also hoping it won't pass in the Senate, but the only thing that current events have taught me in the past year is not to put any hope in our government to make sane and logical decisions for women.My husband just told me to calm down because he feels there is no way the senate will pass the Trump health plan. I just read that pregnancy will cost 425% more with Trump's plan and that sexual assault will be considered a pre existing condition. Unflipping believeable. Keep telling us the GOP isn't misogynistic!