Ellen
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Harriet, I'm going to try and put this politely. Tell him if he cares at all about his future bride, to put on his big boy pants, and deal with it!Date: 7/24/2008 3:45:24 PM
Author: Harriet
I just spoke with my doctor. He said that, because of the stress it's causing me, I should NOT go. I reported that to FI. FI said that the consequences to him of my not going are worse than those to me!Date: 7/24/2008 3:22:59 PM
Author: Ellen
Then simply ask him nicely to 'let you off the hook'.
And remind him that this is an excellent opportunity to lay the ground rules for the future as far as who is, and who is not in charge of your marriage.
{{hugs}}