Odilia
Brilliant_Rock
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I really need to get moving on my search for a new setting for my engagement diamond. I am still so undecided, so I thought since you all like looking at rings, I’d post a bunch of pictures of rings – some with me wearing them, some not – to get the topic started and start getting input from you. All suggestions and opinions are welcome. Hopefully in the next few days and weeks I can get out to stores and try a bunch of rings on.
For starters, my diamond is a 1.09ct ideal cut, SI1, H color round brilliant. The things I know for sure are, I want white metal and four prongs. Also, not a solitaire (when I say solitaire I mean no other diamonds at all except the center). I like something with a good flow or harmony of design – as discussed on another thread, I don’t like the prongs to seem to spring out of nowhere; I like them integrated into the ring and to also be pretty. As for the rest, I am still unsure. So I will summarize what I think I probably want, but the following aren’t as definite (and as you will see in some cases may seem conflicting, which is probably why I’m so indecisive!): Probably a smooth shank rather than something carved. Probably not pave. Not eternity. Probably no halo. I like antique looks, but not necessarily the busy or elaborate ones; preferably more of a clean look. Classic, not mod nor trendy, but preferably a bit unique, rather than boring. I have even copied quotes from PSer’s that describe what I like: “Elegant, clean lines, that never go out of style.” “I''d like a cleaner, classier, delicate look.” “I love attention to detail, clean lines and also, some FRU-FRU on a smaller scale! rather than BIG, BOLD and BANG” “allow the center stone to take center stage while still providing finger cover.”
I like if the diamond sits lower rather than higher, but since just about anything will be lower than what I have now, probably this won’t be an issue! Also, I do like to see a lot of the diamond. And although some folks like round diamonds to look round, I kind of like it if the prongs make the diamond look more square (or cushiony). Probably not a 3 stone with side rounds, but could have some other shape sides, although I think I’ve probably ruled out side pears, because although I’ve admired them on others, they didn’t seem to do as well on my hand. That’s one problem; it is so hard to know what I will like until I actually get it on my hand, and preferably longer than 2 minutes in a store….
Incidentally, since I have another wedding set, this ring will probably be worn alone. I don’t want to have to worry about it sitting flush next to another ring. So it can also be a little blingier than if I were to wear it next to another blingy ring.
Incidentally, it should probably go without saying but just in case: anything I say in critiquing rings here is just how I feel about it on my hand & for me. There are so many beautiful rings here on PS that I think are gorgeous, but wouldn’t necessarily work for me. So please excuse any possible criticism – it is just to give an idea of my taste for me.
Anyway, now I will post some eye candy for you, since I know you all like that.

p.s. please be patient with me; I am very slow… although hopefully you will all encourage me to get out there to the stores and try things on…
