Couldn''t agree more. Pretty sick of the cultural stereo typing.Date: 5/7/2009 6:56:33 PM
Author: Harriet
All,
I had no idea that Asians have a preoccupation with clarity. As for brand, that''s not unique to Asians. May we please stop the cultural stereotyping?
I have one Si2, two I1''s [GASP]!!Date: 5/8/2009 12:03:04 AM
Author: grapegravity
Date: 5/7/2009 11:55:19 PM
Author: Harriet
I''ll join you -- I have two SIs.Date: 5/7/2009 9:44:42 PM
Author: TravelingGal
Gals for goodness sake, lighten up. I was saying that POSSIBLY it might be an asian thing with regards to clarity. It''s not like all asians are shallow or into those things. There are exceptions to every rule, and in this case there might be a ton of exceptions. I am as American as apple pie, as someone mentioned. But MANY of my friends, even while Americanized pay attention to clarity. I am probably the only one of my friends with a SI anything.
As for into brand names, I am sure there plenty of cultures who are. However go into the LV store in Paris and you''ll see what I mean.
I had one SI and now own another SI... And I''m Asian...
when my daughters get engaged i''ll make sure they know the Asian E-ring rules.Date: 5/7/2009 9:44:05 PM
Author: CPF0RY0U
NO! You''re forgot that she''s Asian. Like someone else said earlier, Asians will not accept anything other then DEF, and maybe, big maybe, a G. Before anyone thinks anything bad about me, I''m Asian myself, and have an Asian gf.
Date: 5/7/2009 9:44:42 PM
Author: TravelingGal
Gals for goodness sake, lighten up. I was saying that POSSIBLY it might be an asian thing with regards to clarity. It''s not like all asians are shallow or into those things. There are exceptions to every rule, and in this case there might be a ton of exceptions. I am as American as apple pie, as someone mentioned. But MANY of my friends, even while Americanized pay attention to clarity. I am probably the only one of my friends with a SI anything.
As for into brand names, I am sure there plenty of cultures who are. However go into the LV store in Paris and you''ll see what I mean.
buttt...most Asians don''t wear boulders on their fingers and ears.Date: 5/8/2009 12:17:03 AM
Author: Phoenix
I have one Si2, two I1''s [GASP]!!
Colour wise, I have an H, two K''s / J''s.
This is an excellent point.Date: 5/8/2009 1:15:56 AM
Author: kama_s
Something about the way the OP posts come across makes me feel as though he might be grossly exaggerating her responses. I wonder if the convos between him and his fiancee might be going like this:
OP: Here''s another possibility from GOG
Fiancee: Hmm, better clarity but it''s a tiny bit smaller than my current, no?
OP: WHAAAAAAAAA...*all h*ll breaks loose*
It seems as though the OP is being resentful for having to think about exchanging the stone, and in that resentment might be taking every little thing coming from his fiancee personally and perhaps even making it a bigger issue than it might actually be.
Anyways, I think we have all served our purpose on this thread. Now it''s up to the OP and his wife-to-be to figure out the POA (plan of action). Like I mentioned in my previous post, dont let this come between you two. It''s just a ring, not a marriage. Gotta pick and choose your battles, what?
PP - yes, I did read the entire thread thank you.Date: 5/7/2009 4:12:27 PM
Author: purrfectpear
Po, just wondering if you read the entire thread. After she said he 'cheaped out' the first time, he has tried to see what she wants. The last couple of stones he suggested she said were 'too small'Date: 5/7/2009 3:40:22 PM
Author: Po10472
oh for Pete's sake!!! What a carry-on!..........from some PS members, not the OP's situation.
Ask her what she wants and see if its feasible, if its not, then compromise.
I hope it works out for you both and once you've got it all done and dusted, come back with handshots for us all.
po
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Apparently this 'lady' isn't focused on compromise. She's focused on what SHE has decided that she DESERVES and MUST HAVE, or else the OP falls short (which she has no problem pointing out to him).
Correction. An excellent ''speculation''.Date: 5/8/2009 1:37:53 AM
Author: Gypsy
This is an excellent point.Date: 5/8/2009 1:15:56 AM
Author: kama_s
Something about the way the OP posts come across makes me feel as though he might be grossly exaggerating her responses. I wonder if the convos between him and his fiancee might be going like this:
OP: Here''s another possibility from GOG
Fiancee: Hmm, better clarity but it''s a tiny bit smaller than my current, no?
OP: WHAAAAAAAAA...*all h*ll breaks loose*
It seems as though the OP is being resentful for having to think about exchanging the stone, and in that resentment might be taking every little thing coming from his fiancee personally and perhaps even making it a bigger issue than it might actually be.
Anyways, I think we have all served our purpose on this thread. Now it''s up to the OP and his wife-to-be to figure out the POA (plan of action). Like I mentioned in my previous post, dont let this come between you two. It''s just a ring, not a marriage. Gotta pick and choose your battles, what?
Adieu cdog.
I haven''t caught up, but may I say, Good One QM! LOL!Date: 5/7/2009 11:47:39 AM
Author: QueenMum
Too small?Date: 5/7/2009 8:20:41 AM
Author: cdogstu99
And i also showed her this thread (which might have been a mistake); she then mentioned that diamond was too small and that she wants a VS1 (because of what she read here likely).
Unless she is 18 and you are 90, this reflects a blatant lack of education.
If you''re a billionaire, I understand her too.
Ditto... and I hope that the OP never comes back to read the rest of this post and I REALLY hope that his FI doesn''t read this thread... I recall that he said he showed it to her and that may cause more harm than good!Date: 5/8/2009 9:14:30 AM
Author: Ellen
I don''t know, after 10 pages (of psychoanalysis on two people we don''t know), I kind of feel like this. Maybe it''s just me....