I don't get the whole pseudo suprise proposal. But I had a horrible proposal once so I can understand being involved in the process a bit.
My boyfriend and I discussed it a lot and he asked me repeatedly but I stalled for two years because I didn't want a wedding. Long story short a few months ago I said yes and he said when and I said right now and we snuck down to the courthouse. I'm trying to find a ring I like but I'm so frugal that a diamond ring seems extravagant. I don't know if I will ever get an engagement ring or a wedding band.
My boyfriend and I discussed it a lot and he asked me repeatedly but I stalled for two years because I didn't want a wedding. Long story short a few months ago I said yes and he said when and I said right now and we snuck down to the courthouse. I'm trying to find a ring I like but I'm so frugal that a diamond ring seems extravagant. I don't know if I will ever get an engagement ring or a wedding band.