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Date: 4/1/2009 11:38:33 PM
Author: trillionaire
Date: 4/1/2009 11:35:50 PM
Author: Bia
Date: 4/1/2009 11:21:31 PM
Author: LtlFirecracker
Cant agree more.
I have a friend who left her BF of 4 years a year after they graduated college. She was hoping for a proposal by their forth anniversary and when she didn't get it, she broke up with him. She told me she had already moved to another city for him (he was in med school), and she was ready to start her life and was not going to wait forever. A few months later, they started working things out. It has been 6+ years since than, they are now married with 3 beautiful little girls. Sometimes you have to take a risk and stand up for what you want. If he didn't come back, than the 2 of them wanted different things and it was best she leave. It was a risk that had a good outcome no matter what.
Great happy ending LtlFirecracker
I agree that it is a happy ending, but the real story here is that she took care of herself and her needs and didn't let her man walk all over her and ignore her needs or wishes. You don't do that to coax someone to change their mind, you do it to respect yourself, and whatever happens after, you need to be willing to accept.
No doubt. I think most of us have agreed that walking out to see if he'll change his mind is not the right move.
I hope CF has the courage to find what she seeks because she deserves every bit of happiness.