I'm relatively new to jewelry shopping altogether, let alone diamonds, and I've recently decided I'm ready to get an engagement ring for my girlfriend. I've been trying to educate myself on the characteristics, and I know enough to prioritize the cut above clarify, carat, and color. What I'm struggling with is determining what other characteristics are best to invest in with the diamond for my situation.
Obviously, with no budget limits, I'd get a flawless diamond, but even then I doubt my girlfriend would like a gaudy diamond. She wears very little jewelry (a couple pairs of stud earrings) and she is not a fan of jewelry that is "too fancy". I know as well that if I spent too much on the ring, she'd feel uncomfortable wearing it. This is where I'm really running into trouble. What is deemed fancy is relatively subjective, but I have no idea what characteristics in a diamond typically make it look more fancy. I'm feeling torn between my wants, to get her the most stunning ring that she'll want to show off to everyone, and balancing that with not being too much for her tastes.
I think for the ring itself, I'm going to go with white gold or platinum, which while more expensive, I think look less flashy than 18k gold, but when it comes to the diamond I'm lost.
Thanks in advance.
Obviously, with no budget limits, I'd get a flawless diamond, but even then I doubt my girlfriend would like a gaudy diamond. She wears very little jewelry (a couple pairs of stud earrings) and she is not a fan of jewelry that is "too fancy". I know as well that if I spent too much on the ring, she'd feel uncomfortable wearing it. This is where I'm really running into trouble. What is deemed fancy is relatively subjective, but I have no idea what characteristics in a diamond typically make it look more fancy. I'm feeling torn between my wants, to get her the most stunning ring that she'll want to show off to everyone, and balancing that with not being too much for her tastes.
I think for the ring itself, I'm going to go with white gold or platinum, which while more expensive, I think look less flashy than 18k gold, but when it comes to the diamond I'm lost.
- How much to clarity and color contribute to a diamond looking very fancy, or are these attributes I could invest in without worrying about them being too much for her taste?
- Are certain shapes associated with being fancy and others, not so much?
- How big is too big in terms of carats for someone that doesn't wear much jewelry or like fancy jewelry?
- Are there certain ring settings or styles that are fancy (to avoid) and ones that are simple (but still nice)?
Thanks in advance.