PB:
Soon--when the world stops dragging your heart around--you'll take it by its tail. And take a BIG bite out of it with your good teeth. Cuz you are Smart. Beautiful. Funny. Sincere. Goof friend. Best wife. Dutiful daughter. And rocker of the best god dam jewels on PS.
kind regards--Sharon
When the priest was alone I asked him if it made a difference if his death was by accident or by choice. He said yes. I then asked if the ceremony would have been different, and he said no. He asked me why? I said bc the toxicology report hadn't come back yet.
I think no one understands the context of what I say Bc no one is truly listening to me. I'm glad to let others take the spotlight while I take a supporting role but I think it makes people think that it's ok to marginalize or minimize me and not pay full attention or what not to me.I'm sending you so many hugs, Pinto. I'm glad you went, and I hope--someday--you feel glad that you decided to attend. I think your toothpick doll is a sweet addition, and it sounds exactly like what the charming subject of that sweet list would have included
I'm sorry your dad chose to behave the way he did. Others may be right in their benefit-of-the-doubt interpretation of his comments, but that doesn't make his words any less emotionally stupid for the context.
Personally (and I'm pretty sure I speak for every person on this thread), I'm beyond impressed that you've landed a new job right now. The word that keeps coming to mind when I think of you is "gumption," which, for all its old-timey sound, is one of the best compliments a person can hear, I think. Good on you, Pinto, for how you've handled everything.
I second what others have said, that ultimately, the matter isn't important because your husband is at rest. That said, the cradle Catholic in me can't help but disapprove of the priest's answer to you (what is it with people in your life not understanding context??), not only because it was hurtful (even if unintentionally), but because it's a misrepresentation of what the catechism teaches about death--no matter how it comes about. I don't think you were looking for the Catholic response to this (I believe I read that your out-laws are Catholic, but I'm not sure you are), but if you want them, I'm happy to give you the direct quotes from the catechism that show his comments were misguided at best...and actually just incorrect
No I meant in response to Hayley saying what is it with people in my life not understanding context.No one *here* is truly listening to you?
Here people actually listen. Amazingly they can't see me and my lips moving but they hear and understand.No one *here* is truly listening to you?
I think no one understands the context of what I say Bc no one is truly listening to me. I'm glad to let others take the spotlight while I take a supporting role but I think it makes people think that it's ok to marginalize or minimize me and not pay full attention or what not to me.
Please let me know what the correct catechisms are. And thank you for listening to me.
I think no one understands the context of what I say Bc no one is truly listening to me.... And thank you for listening to me.
How the people in front of my face can fake it and half listen is beyond me...
Here people actually listen. Amazingly they can't see me and my lips moving but they hear and understand.
How the people in front of my face can fake it and half listen is beyond me...
Today, I feel weepy and wish I had someone to snuggle with.
No I meant in response to Hayley saying what is it with people in my life not understanding context.
You must be a very good friend to have so many friends who are eager to oblige your requests.