TravelingGal
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Come on AJ. You''re no dummy. I don''t think what you said was racist, but surely you can see why it was potentially INFLAMMATORY, as seen by what you prefaced your comment with.Date: 12/10/2009 12:31:47 AM
Author: arjunajane
Thankyou kama for providing some anectdotal evidence of the exact cultural dissonance to which I was referring.
The reasons you have given for choosing not to marry an Indian man are many of the same ones I have become familiar with, hence my assertion earlier that I was not surprised a cross cultural communication breakdown had occurred in this particular relationship.
Honestly, I''m still having a lil trouble seeing what about my post ruffled so many feathers. But I said I''d leave out, so I will.