Wow - this thread has been really thought-provoking. Jas and others - thanks for sharing your stories. I think people can be so quick to judge mothers sometimes, without knowing at thing about them. I know not every mother is like the one in the story Jas shared, but perhaps we should give mothers the benefit of the doubt more- a commiserating smile or comment, or even an offer of help -instead of being so quick to tear them down.