TravelingGal
Super_Ideal_Rock
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ksinger said:Amazing. Simply amazing. All the focus on the OTHER person - that mean, rude, child-hating witch. How DARE she!!! Not one word about the kids. No look in the mirror. Let's focus outside of those things we CAN control - like our children perhaps? and focus on that mean other person and how hurt WE are. It's certainly easier than having to pay attention to our kids.
I can't count how many parents making excuses for their children's behavior my husband has heard (teaching middle and highschool) over the years. Or how offended they become when he has the audacity to give them a bad grade or fail them. Their fangs come out. They blame everyone but themselves.
All I know is that people rarely make comments about children's behavior - for the very reason you see here. If they DO make a comment, it is generally because of something pretty over the top. Only the OP knows what was meant by "being a handful", but by that statement she acknowledges that even she observed that they weren't behaving all that well - I don't know if that means they were simply being too loud or playing badminton with the lady's Waterford collection. If they weren't behaving well and she knew it then she was expecting other people to sit there and PUT UP with her admittedly misbehaving kids. A comment should not have been such a shock. The tone of it aside, she can focus on herself and how hurt she is and look for sympathy, or she can work on making sure than no one wishes to comment thus in the future. Her choice.
Yoo hoo...are ya blind? Is that not what I said before you even got to this thread???