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Ally,
I''m sure i''m way over my net-boundaries here, but I remember some of your old threads, and the whole situation really worries me. to be frank, it seems like this relationship has lacked certain necessary components: mutual respect, understanding, common interests - for a long long time. i see too many people stay in mediocre relationships because they feel stuck. they''ve been together for 10 years, they own a home together, they''re scared to death to be single at age 28, 29, 32, etc. these are all bad bad reasons to stay in a relationship. a relationship - a life partnership - should make you feel happy and fulfilled. you don''t have to hang out 24-7, but you should understand one another and connect on a level that''s above and beyond anything else you''ve ever experienced. and if that''s not the case - if there''s continual misunderstanding, and drama and strife... well, i worry.
of course you don''t know me, and i don''t even post that often, so i apologize for being out of line. i really was just alarmed by what i read - and worried about your future.
I''m sure i''m way over my net-boundaries here, but I remember some of your old threads, and the whole situation really worries me. to be frank, it seems like this relationship has lacked certain necessary components: mutual respect, understanding, common interests - for a long long time. i see too many people stay in mediocre relationships because they feel stuck. they''ve been together for 10 years, they own a home together, they''re scared to death to be single at age 28, 29, 32, etc. these are all bad bad reasons to stay in a relationship. a relationship - a life partnership - should make you feel happy and fulfilled. you don''t have to hang out 24-7, but you should understand one another and connect on a level that''s above and beyond anything else you''ve ever experienced. and if that''s not the case - if there''s continual misunderstanding, and drama and strife... well, i worry.
of course you don''t know me, and i don''t even post that often, so i apologize for being out of line. i really was just alarmed by what i read - and worried about your future.