allycat0303
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Blah. Ok. We''ve discussed this before, but there were new developements this weekend. So as many of you know, my fiancé''s best friend E has a girlfriend which I detest. I don`t want to invite her to the wedding, but as of last post, I had decided to suck it up and invite her.
BUUUT this weekend...it''s E''s birthday and M plans this huge birthday thing for him. Consisted of barbecue at their house, followed by dinner at a resturant, and night out clubbing. So all of the guys and their significant others were invited....EXCEPT ME. Now I really didn''t care. I actually thought nothing of it. My guy went on saturday, and when he came back, I started thinking, so I asked him if she had flirted with him.
So he tells me, yes, she wrapped her arms around him (from behind) a reverse hug and was grinding with him on the dance floor for a split second. He told me he moved away. I believe him. He sent 3-4 text messages from the club asking me to come join him, but I am not a club girl, so I didn`t go. I didn''t say anything, just laughed, and changed the subject.
But now I am thinking about it, and I feel really bad. First of all, because she was hitting on him, and I am starting to wonder if he lets her, because I wouldn`t be hugging some guy who was totally unreciprocal. But I don`t want to talk to my guy about it, because I HATE the thought of looking jealous/insecure.
And WHY do I have to invite her to our wedding when I''m never invited to these birthday things? I mean my guy didn`t get angry that I was left off the guest list. I mean granted I didn''t care until it was over, but still. He didn''t think it was anything of it, so why do I have to bend over backward making sure his friend is happy?
Ok, I really do feel worst about this then I thought. Writing it down has brought a sick feeling to my stomach.
BUUUT this weekend...it''s E''s birthday and M plans this huge birthday thing for him. Consisted of barbecue at their house, followed by dinner at a resturant, and night out clubbing. So all of the guys and their significant others were invited....EXCEPT ME. Now I really didn''t care. I actually thought nothing of it. My guy went on saturday, and when he came back, I started thinking, so I asked him if she had flirted with him.
So he tells me, yes, she wrapped her arms around him (from behind) a reverse hug and was grinding with him on the dance floor for a split second. He told me he moved away. I believe him. He sent 3-4 text messages from the club asking me to come join him, but I am not a club girl, so I didn`t go. I didn''t say anything, just laughed, and changed the subject.
But now I am thinking about it, and I feel really bad. First of all, because she was hitting on him, and I am starting to wonder if he lets her, because I wouldn`t be hugging some guy who was totally unreciprocal. But I don`t want to talk to my guy about it, because I HATE the thought of looking jealous/insecure.
And WHY do I have to invite her to our wedding when I''m never invited to these birthday things? I mean my guy didn`t get angry that I was left off the guest list. I mean granted I didn''t care until it was over, but still. He didn''t think it was anything of it, so why do I have to bend over backward making sure his friend is happy?
Ok, I really do feel worst about this then I thought. Writing it down has brought a sick feeling to my stomach.