Calling All E-rings From Outside The United States
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Date: 10/31/2009 5:11:43 AM
Author: Londongirl1
I think there are people here in the uk who can afford larger diamonds but the culture here is different and it''s not all about how big your diamond is. Some women here prefer sapphires and more subtle stones.
Having said that I love my bling courtesy of my American FI. My Fi surprised me this week by saying that I can upgrade my .50 ct studs as my Christmas present - I can''t imagine my English ex coming up with that idea all by himself
You may have a point there I gues!
notice a trend with generations too here in the UK. Most younger people have diamond rings, but a lot of older popele have gemstone e.rings. My mother''s is a 2 stone sapphire ring surrounded by tiny diamonds. A lady at work has a beautiful emerald ring. Very classic with diamonds around it. Only one girl my age at work went for somethng other than diamond and her ring is to die for.
It''s a custom made tiffany legacy style ring with aquamarine centrestone and diamond halo and set shoulders. It''s absolutely stunning and large too by comparison to my own ring. Of the people I notice at work, my diamond is actually on the larger side! Crazy because it is still onlt .33 ct.
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In France, the tradition of the engagement ring is coming back although the "rocks" are by no means as big as those on PS! It usually is a small colored stone or at the very very max a diamond with no more than 0.25 CTW with a poor diamond quality. It is very common not to have an engagement ring. Actually I would say that a majority of married women do not wear an engagement ring.
When my husband proposed to me I didn't want an engagement ring as I didn't want to be seen as wearing a bling. But then I thought "hey it's a gift, I would be stupid to refuse a sparkling gift!"
So now I have a 0.52 F VVS1 round diamond engagement ring with a diamond-encrusted tapered band (0.75 CTW) and it's considered like a rock in France. I live in Ireland and this size seems to be slightly on the plus size (I would say it's more around the 0.3 average).
I see bigger diamonds here in Ireland (but never more than 1.5carat) but the quality is not there with grey-ish or yellow-ish diamonds + sometimes small black dots.
Although I love looking at big rocks on PS, I don't think I will upgrade as I'm not sure if I can walk around with more $$$ on the finger that I already have
I will be too afraid to lose a finger!!
Or if I do upgrade that would be in no more than a carat.
When my husband proposed to me I didn't want an engagement ring as I didn't want to be seen as wearing a bling. But then I thought "hey it's a gift, I would be stupid to refuse a sparkling gift!"
I see bigger diamonds here in Ireland (but never more than 1.5carat) but the quality is not there with grey-ish or yellow-ish diamonds + sometimes small black dots.
Although I love looking at big rocks on PS, I don't think I will upgrade as I'm not sure if I can walk around with more $$$ on the finger that I already have
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I do not really meet the criterion to participate in this thread since I am not, "not from the States". My fiancé, now husband, was, however "not from the States", and we were living in France when we became engaged. We also had no money. So when we bought this ring in his home town in Italy, I suspect that it was probably not too far off from what his friends had bought...but I may be mistaken. This was in 1977.
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Date: 10/31/2009 10:48:16 AM
Author: merrymunky
Date: 10/31/2009 5:11:43 AM
Author: Londongirl1
I think there are people here in the uk who can afford larger diamonds but the culture here is different and it''s not all about how big your diamond is. Some women here prefer sapphires and more subtle stones.
Having said that I love my bling courtesy of my American FI. My Fi surprised me this week by saying that I can upgrade my .50 ct studs as my Christmas present - I can''t imagine my English ex coming up with that idea all by himself
You may have a point there I gues!
notice a trend with generations too here in the UK. Most younger people have diamond rings, but a lot of older popele have gemstone e.rings. My mother''s is a 2 stone sapphire ring surrounded by tiny diamonds. A lady at work has a beautiful emerald ring. Very classic with diamonds around it. Only one girl my age at work went for somethng other than diamond and her ring is to die for.
It''s a custom made tiffany legacy style ring with aquamarine centrestone and diamond halo and set shoulders. It''s absolutely stunning and large too by comparison to my own ring. Of the people I notice at work, my diamond is actually on the larger side! Crazy because it is still onlt .33 ct.
I think gemstones make for a very interesting ering!
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Date: 10/31/2009 10:53:46 AM
Author: Sensoryjunkie
In France, the tradition of the engagement ring is coming back although the ''rocks'' are by no means as big as those on PS! It usually is a small colored stone or at the very very max a diamond with no more than 0.25 CTW with a poor diamond quality. It is very common not to have an engagement ring. Actually I would say that a majority of married women do not wear an engagement ring.
When my husband proposed to me I didn''t want an engagement ring as I didn''t want to be seen as wearing a bling. But then I thought ''hey it''s a gift, I would be stupid to refuse a sparkling gift!''So now I have a 0.52 F VVS1 round diamond engagement ring with a diamond-encrusted tapered band (0.75 CTW) and it''s considered like a rock in France. I live in Ireland and this size seems to be slightly on the plus size (I would say it''s more around the 0.3 average).
I see bigger diamonds here in Ireland (but never more than 1.5carat) but the quality is not there with grey-ish or yellow-ish diamonds + sometimes small black dots.
Although I love looking at big rocks on PS, I don''t think I will upgrade as I''m not sure if I can walk around with more $$$ on the finger that I already haveI will be too afraid to lose a finger!!Or if I do upgrade that would be in no more than a carat.
I think that is a beautiful ring. So can you tell us what the engagement tradition is in Ireland (if you know)?
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Hi Blackberry,
I live in Ireland, as I''ve already posted in this thread, the majority of engagement rings in this country seem to be less than 1ct anything over that is, in my opinion, quite rare (well until I get engaged..heheheh
). Like other countries in Europe and the US, the most common cuts tend to be either a RB or a princess. White gold and platimum seem to be more popular than yellow or rose gold.
I notice that alot of my friends don''t seem to educate themselves about diamonds, they tend to go into a jewellery store and place their faith (and €€) with the sales assistants.
I think the average spend in this country is ~€2,500 (correct me if I''m wrong, Irish PS''ers!!).
I live in Ireland, as I''ve already posted in this thread, the majority of engagement rings in this country seem to be less than 1ct anything over that is, in my opinion, quite rare (well until I get engaged..heheheh
I notice that alot of my friends don''t seem to educate themselves about diamonds, they tend to go into a jewellery store and place their faith (and €€) with the sales assistants.
I think the average spend in this country is ~€2,500 (correct me if I''m wrong, Irish PS''ers!!).
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Date: 10/28/2009 11:22:42 PM
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Yup, Waterlily, Just Ginger and Hihowareyou are correct.
It seems to have nothing to do with exchange rates or standard pricing.
The higher cost of diamonds also goes for precious metals here.
For example, the sapphire ring (plat and diamonds) I am having made at the moment by BGD -
the average quotes from Aussie vendors for the same setting were at least 20 - 30% more expensive (and this is taking exchange rates, shipping and import tax into consideration).
Infact, a number of vendors were even ~40% more expensive than Leon Mege, who is considered one of the pricier vendors around PS
I don''t want to even know what it would''ve cost me to buy the actual sapphire here, lol..
Infact, it costs me a small fortune to insure my US jewellery purchases - because AU Insurance Co''s insist on a local appraisal and replacement value - so there is this huge local markup that is tacked on top of my premiums, even though I will not be replacing locally if anything may happen - can''t figure that one out!
I''ve always found this disparity odd. As in, alot of the diamonds are mined in Australia, right here in Just Ginger''s and my state..I always thought that should at least lower the price a lil, right? who knows!
As long as the exchange rate stays above 75-80c, it is *always* cheaper for me to buy gems & jewellery from the US.
JG, interesting comparison of other consumer products - I did not know this (except for the cigs and beer).
Another reason to relocate to the US me thinks
Yup Australia has a high cost of living, I about died when I went to NYC at how CHEAP everything was compared to home even with the ridc high exchange rate we had last year i.e MAC foundation in MACYS was like $32 maybe less so like $34 AUD in australia MAC foundation is close to $80, clothes are cheap (Levi''s for $20!!!!!) food is cheaper as well in the states and yes diamonds are much much cheaper, I cringe to think what my ring would have cost to buy here.
As for the size of e-rings I would say the largest I see on a daily basis is around a .25cts sometimes in a channel set band and mostly in yellow gold mostly from maul stores.
My ring is not the norm *pokes avatar* (1.37cts in a plat setting) I don''t know if my ring draws that much attn I did get some nasty comments at the start and I do get told it is beautiful often enough but I don''t really pay attention to be honest.
Link to Dee''s ring https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/deelights-new-6-claw-leon-e-ring-with-gog-diamond.99750/
I know this is about erings from outside of the states, but I also noticed something else that's very interesting in my city-Boston, MA. Many of the professors and doctors that I encountered have less than 1 carat diamond rings and often just a plain gold band (maybe they leave their huge engagement rings at home?
) I don't know if it's because they present a kind and knowledgeable image, their smaller diamond rings look so elegant and so precious. I am sure this is a personal choice, including professionals, but this totally changed my idea of "the bigger the better"
does anyone think a smaller diamond (ring) seems to be more precious?
does anyone think a smaller diamond (ring) seems to be more precious?
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My mother is a doctor and wears small engagement ring with two little diamonds. There are a multitude of reasons why she has that ring. In Australia in the 70''s large diamonds were not popular, my father is an accountant, but also a smaller ring is more practical when constantly washing hands, putting on and removing gloves, etc. The only two rings my mother has ever worn are her wedding and engagement rings and both are understated pieces.Date: 10/31/2009 8:50:54 PM
Author: swl
I know this is about erings from outside of the states, but I also noticed something else that''s very interesting in my city-Boston, MA. Many of the professors and doctors that I encountered have less than 1 carat diamond rings and often just a plain gold band (maybe they leave their huge engagement rings at home?) I don''t know if it''s because they present a kind and knowledgeable image, their smaller diamond rings look so elegant and so precious. I am sure this is a personal choice, including professionals, but this totally changed my idea of ''the bigger the better''
does anyone think a smaller diamond (ring) seems to be more precious?
Sometimes I get caught up in the ''bigger is better'' line of thought but in the end a ring given out of love is the most important thing and there is something truly delicate and precious about a smaller diamond ring too.
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Date: 10/29/2009 10:54:38 PM
Author: blackberry16
Date: 10/29/2009 9:50:43 PM
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BB...you ain't even close
avg in the U.S....1ct
avg PS......1.27ct
avg NYC....2.75ct
avg No.Ca & So.Ca.......2.5ct
avg in the mid west....70ct
Actually I have read several report stating the .38 data that I just shared. And I wasn't talking about any specific place in the US. Perhaps you should come up with a nice way to correct people. And since neither of us has polled every person in the country statistics are just statistics and may not be exact! I was sharing some information that I have read and some opinions of my own.
Absolutely. I've read a study that said .38. It really isn't 1.0.
I'm enjoying all the rings in this thread! Thanks, everyone!
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Few extra points:
- I used to work in political fundraising and so knew some EXTREMELY wealthy people who regularly take the Tube (our subway). It''s one of the quickest ways to get around London - you can be stuck for hours in traffic here. Their wives also had quite modest bling on the whole - very disappointing!
- One reason I think Brits don''t spend a lot on rocks is that they worry about being scammed. Too much unknown in diamonds.
- I used to work in political fundraising and so knew some EXTREMELY wealthy people who regularly take the Tube (our subway). It''s one of the quickest ways to get around London - you can be stuck for hours in traffic here. Their wives also had quite modest bling on the whole - very disappointing!
- One reason I think Brits don''t spend a lot on rocks is that they worry about being scammed. Too much unknown in diamonds.
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I think this is the case in Australia too. The quality you get locally isn''t nearly as good as it could be, at the ''good stores'' buyers get pressured into top clarity or colour grades but never really have cut explained to them or understand what they should be looking for. At the other stores buyers have nothing explained to them and end up paying way too much for low colour/clarity and poorly cut stones.
Buying a diamond online sounds risky and sending thousands of dollars by bank wire overseas sounds similar to those Nigerian email scams to most people. I know when we told people we bought a diamond online they kind of gasped and looked at us like they were about to break the bad news to us that we''d been scammed. Someone even asked if we were expecting the package to actually be delivered
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I've actually made a couple of good friends of jewellers here. I think some jewellers in the UK really enjoy talking to people about diamonds, beyond "it's big and shiny, buy it."
Two people in particular have been really generous with their time and expertise and have taught me more about diamonds, with some practical, hands on experience. Not chain stores obviously, but independent jewllers with a real passion for what they do. One man has taught me a lot about cut and evaluating stones and another, the man who made my wedding set, has taught me a lot about the benchwork that he does. I've spent a fair bit of time learning and the more I learn, the more I realise how little I know! I really appreciate their passion for the subject and willingness to share information with someone from outside the industry. (Someone poor, who doesn't buy much at that!
They tend not to stock larger stones though. The happiest afternoon of my life to date was the one I spent playing amongst the stock at DBL.
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This is a really interesting thread! I have an odd perspective on this because I am an American (a NYer) but I have lived outside the US for the past 13 years. I live in a wealthy area of London where large e-ring stones are not at all uncommon. There is a woman who lives near me who has something around a 15 carat ring (emerald cut, pave band). The first time I saw it, I actually moved my chair at the table so that I could watch discreetly while she ate lunch, as the sunlight STREAMED through that stone. It was like a miniature firework on her finger... anyway, I digress!!! I also lived in Amsterdam for a few years, where you almost never see big stones, or any stones for e-rings. The whole Calvinist laid back vibe of the city just frowns on anything too flashy. Even a new bicycle rather than an old beat up one, is considered uncool. Also, I spent 6 years living in South Africa, and used to see HUGE rocks there. One of my dearest older lady friends there has a 13 carat round e-ring, which is mammoth. It is the only piece of jewelry she wears, except for a watch. She''s a very elegant and striking woman, and can completely pull it off. No one wears big stones out in public in SA due to the crime, but they do in their homes. Friends in the diamond business don''t even wear diamonds in public there, or they wear very fun pave sets of stack rings instead of big rocks.
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Date: 10/31/2009 3:12:16 PM
Author: Lew Lew
Maybe some spent so much money on their engagement/wedding rings that they can no longer afford the car and driver.
All kidding aside, this thread is very interesting. I love learning about the different cultures, particularly with respect to engagements and weddings.
Funny story relating to the subway- my FI''s CEO (HUGE exchange in NYC) was at a group meeting with some investors and the meeting ended and one of the wealthy investors said to the CEO, ''can I hitch a ride with you?'' (he was assuming the CEO had a car waiting) so the CEO says, as he is pulling out his subway card, ''sure, I would be happy to swipe you through.'' My FI said the investor''s face was priceless.
I would only take a cab if it was super late at night for safety reason, otherwise the subway was my friend.
Also in relation to the topic at hand I am an American living in Germany, most people wear plain bands- eyeballing it I would say the few engagement rings I have seen are a half carat or less. When I go to Cartier they do not have many engagement rings displayed.
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I'm American living with my British DH in London. I have a half carat set in white gold with side stones to total about .70ctw. I don't know many people who wear more than a plain band or a band with a single .10 diamond or less set in it. I also work in the charity sector so bling isn't a priority. I rarely wear my engagement ring. I have a few rings I rotate around - some silver ones I've made, antique engraved bands, my titanium wedding band, and my filigree platinum wedding band.
My co-workers are mostly in their 30s and 40s, partnered but not married, and have very varied tastes. There's a lot of freedom to dress how you want at my work so huge plastic rings, orange hair, and piercings are basically dress code
Two friends recently got engaged and have chosen not to have rings until wedding bands, which will be matching bands. They don't plan to wear them much, both being doctors.
Anything goes here. I see what must be 1-2 carat asshers and emerald cuts very occasionally on the tube on people in professional dress. The yummy mummies at the cafe close to work are in eternity bands, plain bands, or maybe a diamond less than half a carat. Coloured stones are popular with the older people I see. I like riding the train, the jewellery is so varied as you go through the different parts of town. And you can almost always spot the Americans before they speak because of the huge rocks they sport!
My co-workers are mostly in their 30s and 40s, partnered but not married, and have very varied tastes. There's a lot of freedom to dress how you want at my work so huge plastic rings, orange hair, and piercings are basically dress code
Two friends recently got engaged and have chosen not to have rings until wedding bands, which will be matching bands. They don't plan to wear them much, both being doctors.
Anything goes here. I see what must be 1-2 carat asshers and emerald cuts very occasionally on the tube on people in professional dress. The yummy mummies at the cafe close to work are in eternity bands, plain bands, or maybe a diamond less than half a carat. Coloured stones are popular with the older people I see. I like riding the train, the jewellery is so varied as you go through the different parts of town. And you can almost always spot the Americans before they speak because of the huge rocks they sport!
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Though I now live in NYC, I am English, and got engaged to my American fiance while living in London. The hoopla over my stone was incredible. It''s a 1.3 carat solitaire--average by Manhattan standards, tiny within my husband''s circle of friends and colleagues, but positively gargantuan to the people with whom I worked in media. They honestly thought I was getting hitched to some billionaire!
If of a consumerist bent, the average person in England is far more interested in fashion than they are jewels. Oh, and cars. It''s not uncommon to see a three-bed semi with a convertible BMW or an Audi up the driveway.
If of a consumerist bent, the average person in England is far more interested in fashion than they are jewels. Oh, and cars. It''s not uncommon to see a three-bed semi with a convertible BMW or an Audi up the driveway.
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First off I''m an American living in Okinawa Japan. My husband is stationed here. We have been here about 2 years. From what I can tell, the middle and lower class only wear simple gold rings. the upper class has diamond erings. they all seem to be solitary though. I have yet to see a local Okianwa with side stones. I would guess that most rings are under 1. carat however i think that might change. The Japanese yen use to be much lower but now it is out performing the dollar by 20% so i wouldn''t be suprized if I do start seeing larger stones. I have a .76 ct right now and I think I have a mid range stone for the other american woman living here. Though because of PS I''m in upgrade fevor and when we visit the states in 3 weeks we plan on upgrading me to 2 cts! I''m so excitied!
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Dinamit- Thanks. I''m from Oop North, not a London girl! My ring thread is over here. https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/my-ering-emerald-cut-diamond-with-sapphire-accents.109255/
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Well, the area I live in there are always buses running all hours of the day (no subway or anything). But nobody I know takes them, unless they have to. FI prefers to take it to work, which I prefer him not to. I used to take the bus downtown for school... and I mostly saw average to less than.. average people. That''s all. I guess I am surprised. I didn''t mean to offend anyone by what I said either.
I'm American living on Long Island but my fiancee is a New Zealander and had my ring made in NZ by the jeweler who made his mother and sister's engagement rings. I wanted an Asscher and it was not an easy find. Although I have one of the smallest center stones in our New York group of friends, I also have one of the only custom made and original rings of our group.
Here's my ring.
Center - .88 ct Asscher G VSI
Sides - .24 trillian
5 one point stones pave set down each side
1.22 total carat weight.
Here's my ring.
Center - .88 ct Asscher G VSI
Sides - .24 trillian
5 one point stones pave set down each side
1.22 total carat weight.
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