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Ideal_Rock
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MP/Skippy -
I know I''m guilty of saying, "I feel sooooo fat," even though I know I''m not. It''s not fishing for compliments, it''s just genuinely sharing what I feel with a friend. Objectively, I know I''m fine (5'' 10" and a size 8/10) but it''s big for me, and if I''m feeling more bloated than normal, I''m pretty miserable.
But I did realize a few years ago (when one of my friends was on the verge of bashing me with a pillow) that compliments ought to just be accepted. I even pulled out my Miss Manners book, and that''s the advice she gave, too! Say thank you sincerely, and if you disagree, keep it to yourself. (Besides, life is fun with compliments. I like them. They feed my little ego monster. Mmmmm....nom nom nom.)
I know I''m guilty of saying, "I feel sooooo fat," even though I know I''m not. It''s not fishing for compliments, it''s just genuinely sharing what I feel with a friend. Objectively, I know I''m fine (5'' 10" and a size 8/10) but it''s big for me, and if I''m feeling more bloated than normal, I''m pretty miserable.
But I did realize a few years ago (when one of my friends was on the verge of bashing me with a pillow) that compliments ought to just be accepted. I even pulled out my Miss Manners book, and that''s the advice she gave, too! Say thank you sincerely, and if you disagree, keep it to yourself. (Besides, life is fun with compliments. I like them. They feed my little ego monster. Mmmmm....nom nom nom.)