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It seems that you have carefully worded these women's jobs as "accepting a payoff," by doing so, you participate in victim blaming and you support the rapists....even when you wrap your words in "absolutely these rapists are terrible."
You are not supporting all women if you think it is ok to hold the women of Hollywood to some unrealistic standard. If you want to enact change, do it. Do it at your work place. Raise good boys. Raise a bad ass for a daughter. But most of all, stop blaming ALL sexual assault victims for being assaulted and for how they handle their assaults after the fact. This is the biggest problem that keeps sexual assault victims from coming forward. Don't you see? Victim blaming and lack of support.
When a person is sexually assaulted, immediately, their psychology is changed. Immediately, they feel responsible, worthless, and POWERLESS, among other things. The act of sexual assault alone does this to a person.
Then you are asking this person who has gone through such a horrific trauma to somehow stand up for themselves against...
The whole world? Everyone.. Everyone who is going to accuse them of being money hungry, liars, power hungry, sluts, etc? You are asking them to do this on the public stage.
All while they are just trying to heal from being traumatized in one of the worst possible ways.
They are only women. Trauma is personal. People will react to trauma in many different ways. Those women don't owe anyone a single thing.
Negative. I’m not victim blaming. Far from it. You can’t twist my words on this. You have no idea my past experience. Please do try to understand what others are saying and not read something else or twist to your point of view. Maybe go back and re-read what I wrote. We are all on the same side here.