ruby59
Ideal_Rock
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- Feb 5, 2004
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Tacori E-ring|1485310081|4119357 said:ruby59|1485309805|4119356 said:Tacori E-ring|1485309502|4119351 said:ruby59|1485309297|4119347 said:Tacori E-ring|1485307807|4119330 said:Ruby,
I have been thinking about you lately. It seems like you are someone who has been hurt and survived probably unfair circumstances. I hope you have people IRL to support and help you. It seems you find PS unsupportive which is probably hurtful and confusing. It is difficult for you to focus on what is being said in a thread and reply in a way we can understand. I sincerely hope you heal from whatever happened. I have decided to read your posts with a different lens. One of compassion instead of irritation. I am reminded of the saying, "if the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail." I really hope you are okay.
Please save your pity for those on here who need it.
Empathy should never be confused with pity. I thought carefully before I posted knowing you may not understand my intentions. I stand by what I said. You are clearly hurting. I sincerely hope you can heal.
You do not know me. I do not know you.
I certainly would never write such a self serving post to someone I did not know.
I do not want your empathy or pity.
As I said save it for someone who really wants and needs it.
I understand you more than you think. I am guessing female relationships are very difficult for you. It would explain the difference between your response to Kenny and your response to me. I am choosing to look at you from a different lens. I do think you need that.
And you can tell all this from my one response?
Posters, can you imagine if it were me posting this self indulging garbage?