jsb1976
Rough_Rock
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If I missed a post on this topic before, I apologize. The search function is not so user friendly.
So...
What's up with ladies choosing, knowing, receiving in the mail, their engagement ring before they are even engaged?
I'm at a lost.
Sort of seems like the sentimental value is taken out of a proposal if you; choose the diamond yourself, choose the setting yourself, tell your partner this is what you want, receive the package in the mail, see it everday in a drawer on a shelf, set a time and a place of where the proposal will take place etc...
I do understand that every taste is different, and the idea of a diamond or setting may differ in opinon between two people, but that is what subtle hints are for.
I am 34 years old, my girlfriend is 25. Am I being too old school having a ring made, as a surprise, without her having a constant hands on experience?
Or is the hands on process a new trend which simply flew completely over my head?
This is not a rant, but I read posts daily on the forum about how "My engagement ring arrived today, just waiting for him to propose". Is this the new "in" thing to do?
Thanks for your advice.
JB
So...
What's up with ladies choosing, knowing, receiving in the mail, their engagement ring before they are even engaged?
I'm at a lost.
Sort of seems like the sentimental value is taken out of a proposal if you; choose the diamond yourself, choose the setting yourself, tell your partner this is what you want, receive the package in the mail, see it everday in a drawer on a shelf, set a time and a place of where the proposal will take place etc...
I do understand that every taste is different, and the idea of a diamond or setting may differ in opinon between two people, but that is what subtle hints are for.
I am 34 years old, my girlfriend is 25. Am I being too old school having a ring made, as a surprise, without her having a constant hands on experience?
Or is the hands on process a new trend which simply flew completely over my head?
This is not a rant, but I read posts daily on the forum about how "My engagement ring arrived today, just waiting for him to propose". Is this the new "in" thing to do?
Thanks for your advice.
JB