I am trying to come up with an e-ring that wouldn''t break FI''s (limited) budget, but that I still love. He could save up for the next two years for my dream ring, I guess, but that''s seems pointless I''d rather make do with less and be married sooner instead of later. I''d be happy with just a plain gold band, but he wants me to have an e-ring.
My dream ring would have a diamond solitaire or three stone and be 1.5 carats+. I already have a baby diamond pendent that is 27 points, and I don''t want an e-ring that size just for the sake of it being a diamond.
We looked at anniversary style band for around 1,000-1.500 to wear as an e-ring. That is possible, but I think I''d rather have a 4mm white gold band and upgrade later, when the economy is better and money isn''t so tight.
Here''s the sticking point. MIL has offered her massive collection of loose colored stones from the jewelry for the masses JTV. to set in a ring.
I''ve looked through a few trays I don''t think the color or cut is very good, and I know next to nothing about jewelry. I''d almost rather go to the maul. I don''t know what to do. It''s a HUGE JTV collection, with, I''m not kidding, hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stones. Well, I don''t know if it''s worth that, but that''s what she paid for it. She thinks of it as an investment. Should I patiently look through her collection until I find SOMETHING I can live with. I don''t want to hurt FI''s feelings by turning down her stones.
What would you do?
My dream ring would have a diamond solitaire or three stone and be 1.5 carats+. I already have a baby diamond pendent that is 27 points, and I don''t want an e-ring that size just for the sake of it being a diamond.
We looked at anniversary style band for around 1,000-1.500 to wear as an e-ring. That is possible, but I think I''d rather have a 4mm white gold band and upgrade later, when the economy is better and money isn''t so tight.
Here''s the sticking point. MIL has offered her massive collection of loose colored stones from the jewelry for the masses JTV. to set in a ring.
I''ve looked through a few trays I don''t think the color or cut is very good, and I know next to nothing about jewelry. I''d almost rather go to the maul. I don''t know what to do. It''s a HUGE JTV collection, with, I''m not kidding, hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stones. Well, I don''t know if it''s worth that, but that''s what she paid for it. She thinks of it as an investment. Should I patiently look through her collection until I find SOMETHING I can live with. I don''t want to hurt FI''s feelings by turning down her stones.
What would you do?