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Ideal_Rock
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Hello!
Some of you may recall I had purchased this Tiffany Elsa Peretti emerald pendant. At the time, I also purchased the matching earrings, although I really wanted the larger ones but it wasn’t in the budget at the time so I got the smaller ones.

Well, my husband surprised me with the large ones for my birthday (a big birthday) and the color is not the same; the pendant is a bluish-green (as are my small earrings) and the large earrings are a rich green.

I do not know what to do about this. Do I see if Tiffany can find me a better match?

Client Advisor feels that the earrings I received are a more valuable color (which honestly makes me feel like crap about the pendant and small earrings I previously purchased from them!) but, as a G.G. myself (not working in the industry, did it as a “lifelong learning” kind of experience) that thought had also occurred to me even before the Client Advisor’s input (although not necessarily true if the saturation is there, and there is also a thing about having too much saturation.) I’m guessing Tiffany Client Advisors may have a basic understanding of what constitutes a nice gem but could lack a more comprehensive knowledge base depending on their training and experience.

With that said, I had been drawn toward the bluish-green but I’m also starting to think more openly/favorably toward the rich green, just not sure if they are too dark.

*Do I see if they can find a pair that matches the pendant?
*Do I just not have the large earrings and the pendant function as a matched set?
*Do I sell the pendant and small earrings and use that money toward the purchase of a new pendant that matches the large earrings?

There is also a pair of the large earrings being sold on a website as pre-owned that I’ve been following (my husband didn’t know about this until yesterday when all this came up as I had no idea he was thinking of purchasing the larger earrings and, quite honestly, I thought the ship had sailed on ever even owning the larger ones due to their ever-increasing price-point and pretty much was sort of over it by now so it was a bit of a shock and a switching of gears when I received the gift box). It appears that the resale pair might be a closer match to my pendant.

Clearly if I purchased the ones for resale we would save a nice chunk of money. I am a little concerned about purchasing emeralds pre-owned, however there is a generous return policy but I haven’t bought from that vendor and am always a bit nervous for high ticket items.

There’s also the issue of returning the new pair to Tiffany as we’ve worked with this person before and I feel bad for that person to lose out on such a big sale.

It’s so ironic, and things like this happen to me all the time so I’m kicking myself, but as I said I periodically follow the listing for the resale pair and I took a peek the other day to see if they were still available and I almost mentioned it to my husband but didn’t. Ugh!

Add to my angst the fact that there is a specific return period for Tiffany that is clicking away as the purchase was charged more than one day prior to my husband picking up the earrings and then he had them in his possession for a couple days prior to presenting them to me on my birthday, so I’ve lost days to deal with this even before I received them.

What would you do/what do you suggest I do?

Thank you very much!

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This is a tough one! I was going to say I'd wear them as a set and forget about the color disparity, but they are indeed quite different. I think it comes down to this... which color do YOU like best? If it's the lighter blue-green of the pendant, as it seems to be, then you have your answer. I don't think I'd have any problem buying preowned emerald EARRINGS. Just make sure you have a return policy and get them under the loupe as soon as they're in your possession. Return the others, and then if the preowned don't work out, you can always ask the Tiffany advisor for a better match. Don't feel bad for the advisor. This is their job... to make YOU happy! Good luck... I love each piece regardless!!

P.S. Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!
 
I think they’ll look splendid as a set despite being a bit different in color. They won’t be directly next to each other like they would if they were all stones set on the same band. But I completely agree you should go with what you’re most drawn to. (As an aside, they are spectacular! I adore Elsa Peretti, and those emeralds positively glow!)
 
Thank you @dnfd for your input. I made the decision a few days ago that I definitely did not want this pair of earrings. They are just too dark unless they have direct illumination, and also I want a matched set to my pendant. I placed the order for the ones I found on resale as I think they have the potential to be a good match to my pendant. I will receive them next week. The SA began to source another pair to be a better match to my pendant so I will see if what she finds is any better. I have also made the inquiry about another item to purchase from her as an alternative since the earrings on resale are a good savings from the retail price my husband was amenable to me also potentially getting something else from the SA if I like it.
Stay tuned!
 
Thank you @dnfd for your input. I made the decision a few days ago that I definitely did not want this pair of earrings. They are just too dark unless they have direct illumination, and also I want a matched set to my pendant. I placed the order for the ones I found on resale as I think they have the potential to be a good match to my pendant. I will receive them next week. The SA began to source another pair to be a better match to my pendant so I will see if what she finds is any better. I have also made the inquiry about another item to purchase from her as an alternative since the earrings on resale are a good savings from the retail price my husband was amenable to me also potentially getting something else from the SA if I like it.
Stay tuned!

This sounds like it could be a win-win! I hope it all works out... keep us posted!!
 
I think they work fine as a set. It's so not like a suit where the jacket and pants just. slightly. clash. I can barely discern it when they are side-by-side in the photos. I mean I can but the gems are petite and the colors are lovely and I would not make a change.

All that said, spouse and I have an unwritten rule that any gift can be returned/exchanged/burned in the back yard with zero hard feelings. Seldom happens -- and more likely for a cheap camping lantern or T-shirt since I don't surprise her with jewelry any more. (At our current price-point, jewelry purchases are consensual.)
 
Thank you @dnfd for your input. I made the decision a few days ago that I definitely did not want this pair of earrings. They are just too dark unless they have direct illumination, and also I want a matched set to my pendant. I placed the order for the ones I found on resale as I think they have the potential to be a good match to my pendant. I will receive them next week. The SA began to source another pair to be a better match to my pendant so I will see if what she finds is any better. I have also made the inquiry about another item to purchase from her as an alternative since the earrings on resale are a good savings from the retail price my husband was amenable to me also potentially getting something else from the SA if I like it.
Stay tuned!

You must be relieved to have made the decision and put the wheels in motion for the next steps! Can't wait for the update!
 
You must be relieved to have made the decision and put the wheels in motion for the next steps! Can't wait for the update!

There definitely was a great sense of relief but until I actually see the pair I won’t know if this is how it will play out and I’m a little stressed about how to handle it all with the SA. I hate for her to bring another pair or 2 in if this one will be the one so I was thinking of telling her that I need to think about it and wait until next week (essentially after I see the resale pair) but husband says let her bring in if she sourced anything as “that’s her job” (his words). Also, with regard to the other item, it’s like do I really need a second gift at this time??? We don’t have a money tree lol and it’s also nice to spread out the gifts!!! Stay tuned!
 
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