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Rough_Rock
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- Nov 5, 2007
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I hear what you are all saying...and yes, I do agree that I should not let this revelation of the past disrail our marriage. I'm just so disappointed in him. I've never been with anyone who hasn't cheated on me and I thought my DH was different.
Oh, and DH graduated college at 27, not 20. He went back to school later in life to finish what he started. He wasn't terribly young - old enough to know better.
I was already out of school and living/working in another city. We had a long distant relationship but it was a committed (or so I thought), mature relationship. I supported his efforts to go back to school and I picked-up a lot of expenses on behalf of our relationship along the way.
When he graduated, he asked to move in with me to which I said no. I had a live-in boyfriend before and it didn't work out so wasn't willing to live with someone unless we were at least engaged. Plus, I told him that I thought it was time for him to get his feet wet in his chosen profession, which landed him in another nearby city - 4 hours away.
So we continued our long distant relationship. Apparently, his relationship with the ex also continued there as well. I don't know for how long - as DH and I were married a year and half later, but it was a bold, all out - cheat. No dumb, kid stuff about it.
*please excuse my spelling - grammatical errors - the thoughts are comign out faster than my fingers can move.