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Happy new week all
I was watching another TV show last night featuring a weight loss journey and again it made me realize how important a tool an open mind is. It is so important to be able to change the way of thinking that made you overweight in the first place - not an easy thing to do, but it makes this journey so much easier when you can. The person featured in this show was unable to change the mindset from that of extreme measures, and you could see that unfortunately, the weight she lost was probably not permanent.
For years, I too had been assailed and brainwashed with strict diets and eating plans, being made to feel a failure for not being able to stick to 800 cals a day etc etc.
Such low calorie intakes aren''t necessary or advisable, especially if you can become more active. It can be hard to change and move away from the low calorie diet mindset, but it can be done - that you can actually eat and lose weight.
On these extreme diets, if I wasn''t preparing my small amounts of allowed food, I was obsessing about it, and being hungry the whole time. I went on every crackpot diet imaginable, may have lost some weight but rarely noticing any fat loss. The quick fix is no fix really and it has taken me a long time to be able to lose this way of thinking, now I have proven that exercise and moderation with food works.
So how did I manage to lose my quick fix mentality? I guess it was during my wakeup call moment. I was going out for a meal and felt heavy - didn''t feel good. The feelings of panic set in that I was going to have to do something about this yet again, and I could literally feel myself deflate and sink into misery. Until shortly afterwards, the penny dropped. For years I had yo yo''d up and down with my weight and every silly fad diet going, somehow this time, I realized that what was needed was consistent, steady effort. I was going to embark on a lifelong plan to be able to lose weight, keep it off and yet enjoy life - like other people seemed to be able to do and most importantly - not be hungry!!!
So 2 and a half years later, I like where I am today. Overall, this journey has been enjoyable and not difficult. I now know that I can be healthy and keep the weight off with consistent work and effort. I can''t fail because I have erased that word from my plan, I may choose to have some carrot cake on occasion, but that is my choice if I want it. I enjoy it and either don''t worry about it, or I may cut down a little the following day, or work out a bit harder. Moderation is what works. Treat your body right with food, exercise, sleep etc and it will repay you in working with you to keep you healthy and active. But before this stage can be reached - the mindset is what needs to be adjusted from that which made you overweight in the first place!
Have a great week

I was watching another TV show last night featuring a weight loss journey and again it made me realize how important a tool an open mind is. It is so important to be able to change the way of thinking that made you overweight in the first place - not an easy thing to do, but it makes this journey so much easier when you can. The person featured in this show was unable to change the mindset from that of extreme measures, and you could see that unfortunately, the weight she lost was probably not permanent.
For years, I too had been assailed and brainwashed with strict diets and eating plans, being made to feel a failure for not being able to stick to 800 cals a day etc etc.

On these extreme diets, if I wasn''t preparing my small amounts of allowed food, I was obsessing about it, and being hungry the whole time. I went on every crackpot diet imaginable, may have lost some weight but rarely noticing any fat loss. The quick fix is no fix really and it has taken me a long time to be able to lose this way of thinking, now I have proven that exercise and moderation with food works.
So how did I manage to lose my quick fix mentality? I guess it was during my wakeup call moment. I was going out for a meal and felt heavy - didn''t feel good. The feelings of panic set in that I was going to have to do something about this yet again, and I could literally feel myself deflate and sink into misery. Until shortly afterwards, the penny dropped. For years I had yo yo''d up and down with my weight and every silly fad diet going, somehow this time, I realized that what was needed was consistent, steady effort. I was going to embark on a lifelong plan to be able to lose weight, keep it off and yet enjoy life - like other people seemed to be able to do and most importantly - not be hungry!!!
So 2 and a half years later, I like where I am today. Overall, this journey has been enjoyable and not difficult. I now know that I can be healthy and keep the weight off with consistent work and effort. I can''t fail because I have erased that word from my plan, I may choose to have some carrot cake on occasion, but that is my choice if I want it. I enjoy it and either don''t worry about it, or I may cut down a little the following day, or work out a bit harder. Moderation is what works. Treat your body right with food, exercise, sleep etc and it will repay you in working with you to keep you healthy and active. But before this stage can be reached - the mindset is what needs to be adjusted from that which made you overweight in the first place!
Have a great week
