I am looking at these 2 styles, in platinum. I have searched and found a lot of threads, but it's hard to decide without seeing them in person and holding them. Would love to hear from anyone who has decided one over the other. If anyone has seen them both in person I would love to hear your thoughts too. There is a 500 difference which I feel is pretty substantial. Does the one feel heavier than the other? Is the Vache more "refined" or finished smoother or somehow else better? I would love the ring to have a subtantial feel, which is why I chose platinum.