Date: 5/3/2009 11:26:35 PM
Author: popcorn
acutally i just spoke with my husband and he said ''don''t tell him until you can afford another ring, cause what''s the point of letting him know now?'' But that''s just his view, do what you think works best for you.
I agree. If you can''t afford another ring, may as well just live with this one until you can afford one. If you don''t want to wear it, just tell him the ring is a little fancy for your work. Honesty is important in a marriage, but "save face" for the other person can also help to build a strong relationship. If your FI picked out a ring when he was a kid and still remembers the ring, I would say he is a very sensitive person. Total honesty in this case may hurt too much. You can pick your wedding rings together and get yourself more bling in the wedding ring.
Last but not the least, congrats on your engagement.