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Did you read my post? Your points don''t seem to correspond with my quoted post at all.Date: 1/29/2009 5:09:22 PM
Author: vespergirl
Date: 1/29/2009 3:11:32 PM
Author: WishfulThinking
I take no particular issue with vespergirl''s original post and the more general point of this thread, but at least from what I could bring myself to read people seem to be collapsing the differences between peoples'' various situations and settling on ''The Poor'' as a category which can be discussed and critiqued in various ways.
There is a HUGE difference between the family on Dr. Phil and other people who can be rightly classified as ''poor.'' I don''t know anyone who considers his or her self or family to be ''poor,'' but I know a lot of people who have a very difficult time making ends meet for one reason or another and none of them hang out with their cellphones and eat at fancy restaurants every day of the week. There are a lot of people with shitty budgeting skills and unrealistic expectations, and there are a lot of other people who legitimately do not make enough money to support themselves and their families.
The way people treat this issue is SO incredibly absurd. Sorry to single out individual comments, but we''ve now heard everything from ''poor people shouldn''t have phones'' [praytell, how will you get a job if you have no contact information?] to some rendition of the old ''my family/someone I know pulled themselves up from their bootstraps, so the American Dream is alive and well if people just work hard enough. Yeah right. You want to tell that to my parents? Really? Because you know everything about them, and their life and circumstances and options? Yeah, no thanks. It''s really not as simple as being able to just find a way to make ends meet when the cost of living is high and there is really no living wage for a lot of people. You know someone who ''made it'' against the odds? Well I''ll respond with my own [technically meaningless, since it''s a silly way to debate] anecdotes about people I know who work THREE JOBS and still cannot cover their rent and a car living in a rural area where there is no public transit and you have to drive 25 minutes to the nearest grocery store [but not to the nearest restaurant, curiously]. Cutting corners is difficult when the only corners you have left to cut are your heat and electricity [in the dead of winter this is barely an option] and how many meals a day you eat. Think about it.
ETA: gypsy''s post was excellent.
Why stay in an economically depressed rural area if there are no jobs there? I see immigrants come from as far away as Asia and Africa with next to nothing in their pocket, and thrive. Instead of staying in an area where there are no jobs, they move to the US, where there are jobs. If someone can manage to get from Korea to the US, I think that people in Appalachia can manage to find their way to a less economically depressed area of the US.
And if there are truly no jobs in the US, that why are so many Mexicans coming here for work? There is work, it''s just not work that most Americans want to do. Sure, it stinks that over-paid union jobs are disappearing (e.g. auto workers) but there is far more work to be found in the service and agricultural fields.
For the past two years, fruit farmers in CA have been complaining that their fruit is rotting on the trees, because due to tighter border restrictions, their regular crop workers who come over from Mexico have not been able to cross the border for work. The farmers advertised widely that they needed help picking the crops, but big surprise, they didn''t have thousands of unemployed Americans rushing over for the work. Millions of dollars in produce went to waste, because without the Mexican crop pickers, they couldn''t find Americans willing to do that type of work. I guess it''s easier to sit around and collect an unemployment check.
The places which are not economically depressed are expensive places to live, and people from all walks of life are having difficulty finding jobs in this economy. I''ve seen a lot of immigrants come from far away and absolutely fail to make a better life for themselves in the United States. For every success story you have I will have another in which good, hardworking people were not able to just "make it" in the US. A lot of people who come here to work, especially migrant labor, are illegal workers in the United States, who are willing to work for below the federal minimum wage. Because they are not being legally employed, they are being paid less than an American citizen would have to be paid. Have you looked into what the lives of these migrant workers is like? Living in shantytowns and working for very little pay is pretty much the norm for these people. The agricultural businesses that use predominantly Mexican labour to pick cannot afford to pay Americans minimum wage to do the same work, and even if they could, the minimum wage in many parts of this country [ESPECIALLY California, for goodness sakes] is not a living wage and isn''t enough to support people no matter how many hours they work.
I never should have responded to this thread in the first place. Lots of people have made great points and very little has been said to recognize their validity... instead people just continue to wax philosophical about hard work will always pay off, even though anyone who has EVER paid attention to the reality of the situation at any time in American history knows that by and large this is not true and really has never been true. It''s like herding cats to get people to understand this.