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Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2007
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New here, and sort of have a dilemma. I'm newly married and DH is older. He was engaged before. I've always felt a little competitive with the ex (she is no longer in the picture, so it's more to do with the idea of her). It seemed more passionate with her.
Anyway, I was going through some boxes (we live together) and among a box of OUR stuff found a GIA certificate copy. I assumed it was for my diamond, and it described a stone which looked to be around the same specs as mine (from what I can remember DH telling me). But I spotted a date on the top left which is over 8 years ago (a specific date and year). Now, I'm trying to stay rationale. The date is very small, maybe it is refering to something else like the date the disclaimer was written (date is above disclaimer)? But I can't get the doubt out of my head since this was around the time DH was with his ex-fiancee.
I'm not sure what I'm thinking here--could it be the same stone he used for my ring? I would have a problem with that since he told me it was not. Or could he have just bought a similar one. Just need some feedback b/c my mind is racing and maybe I'm not thinking right. Scared to ask him b/c he will say I snooped and none of my business and I could be way off. Still no matter what, I wish he would not hold onto all these memories of her.
PS sorry if this post is in the wrong area..
Anyway, I was going through some boxes (we live together) and among a box of OUR stuff found a GIA certificate copy. I assumed it was for my diamond, and it described a stone which looked to be around the same specs as mine (from what I can remember DH telling me). But I spotted a date on the top left which is over 8 years ago (a specific date and year). Now, I'm trying to stay rationale. The date is very small, maybe it is refering to something else like the date the disclaimer was written (date is above disclaimer)? But I can't get the doubt out of my head since this was around the time DH was with his ex-fiancee.
I'm not sure what I'm thinking here--could it be the same stone he used for my ring? I would have a problem with that since he told me it was not. Or could he have just bought a similar one. Just need some feedback b/c my mind is racing and maybe I'm not thinking right. Scared to ask him b/c he will say I snooped and none of my business and I could be way off. Still no matter what, I wish he would not hold onto all these memories of her.
PS sorry if this post is in the wrong area..