I would love to see someone good at Photoshop put your gorgeous EC in a Legacy type setting. One, because I''m curious to see a step cut in that setting, and two, because I wonder if it wouldn''t be the best of both worlds? You love the EC stone, it meets all your criteria...but you love the Legacy. It would be so cool if the EC worked in that settingDate: 8/22/2008 10:11:08 PM
Author: UCLABelle
HollyS-We can rejoice together!!!!!
Date: 8/22/2008 11:59:16 PM
Author: UCLABelle
Purrfectpear-That would be cool, only problem is that Tiffany won''t set a non-legacy in that setting; and I do not want my diamond mounted in a non-Tiffany settingHowever, Tiffany is brining in a few 1.5 emerald cuts with baguettes for me to see (but this only fixes the trilliant issue, not lack of bling one---so is more for curiosity).
Ditto everything Chelsea has said, a breath of fresh air.Date: 8/23/2008 7:16:03 PM
Author: chelsea3
I personally do not like generalizations. No two people are alike, no two engagements or marriages are alike. Decisions made by one couple may not be made by another couple. Some are sentimental, others are not. Some spend money on jewels, some may spend it on traveling to exotic locations, gambling, fine dining, sports cars, or climbing Mt. Everest, etc. To each their own. Hey, if you enjoy it and it works for you AND your relationship . . . if you can afford it AND you aren''t breaking the law, GO FOR IT!!! Enjoy life!
There will always be those who dislike the ''judgements and assumptions'' of others, while proving they are fully capable of making their own ''judgements and assumptions''. And believing, for some reason, that they are taking the high road. Uh huh. How many times lately have we heard the phrase, "it makes me sad"? Please.Date: 8/24/2008 9:12:49 AM
Author: rob09
''The judgements and assumptions being made by some in this thread make me sad.. ''
I think that we have had many balanced posts here - maybe you can point out what bothers you instead of alluding to something???
I think for anybody reading this thread it will be clear, but for you and HollyS I will point it out, seeing as you are the only two that felt the need to respond to my post in a defensive matter.Date: 8/24/2008 9:12:49 AM
Author: rob09
''The judgements and assumptions being made by some in this thread make me sad.. ''
I think that we have had many balanced posts here - maybe you can point out what bothers you instead of alluding to something???
HollyS, I will quote yourself from earlier in this threadDate: 8/24/2008 9:30:58 AM
Author: HollyS
There will always be those who dislike the 'judgements and assumptions' of others, while proving they are fully capable of making their own 'judgements and assumptions'. And believing, for some reason, that they are taking the high road. Uh huh. How many times lately have we heard the phrase, 'it makes me sad'? Please. whileDate: 8/24/2008 9:12:49 AM
Author: rob09
'The judgements and assumptions being made by some in this thread make me sad.. '
I think that we have had many balanced posts here - maybe you can point out what bothers you instead of alluding to something???
I think the gal who said she finds herself buying diamonds 'when she has the urge, and later regrets the purchase',(the paraphrasing is mine), more than proves any assumption or judgement I've been accused of making about 'upgrade fever'. For some, it is the 'desire to acquire' that sparks their constant left hand changes. Which is all I've ever really 'alluded' to in my own posts.
Hmmmm....I think you've mis-interpreted my post.Date: 8/24/2008 9:30:58 AM
Author: HollyS
There will always be those who dislike the 'judgements and assumptions' of others, while proving they are fully capable of making their own 'judgements and assumptions'. And believing, for some reason, that they are taking the high road. Uh huh. How many times lately have we heard the phrase, 'it makes me sad'? Please.Date: 8/24/2008 9:12:49 AM
Author: rob09
'The judgements and assumptions being made by some in this thread make me sad.. '
I think that we have had many balanced posts here - maybe you can point out what bothers you instead of alluding to something???
I think the gal who said she finds herself buying diamonds 'when she has the urge, and later regrets the purchase',(the paraphrasing is mine), more than proves any assumption or judgement I've been accused of making about 'upgrade fever'. For some, it is the 'desire to acquire' that sparks their constant left hand changes. Which is all I've ever really 'alluded' to in my own posts.
Date: 8/24/2008 10:27:36 AM
Author: arjunajane
HollyS, I will quote yourself from earlier in this threadDate: 8/24/2008 9:30:58 AM
Author: HollyS
There will always be those who dislike the ''judgements and assumptions'' of others, while proving they are fully capable of making their own ''judgements and assumptions''. And believing, for some reason, that they are taking the high road. Uh huh. How many times lately have we heard the phrase, ''it makes me sad''? Please. whileDate: 8/24/2008 9:12:49 AM
Author: rob09
''The judgements and assumptions being made by some in this thread make me sad.. ''
I think that we have had many balanced posts here - maybe you can point out what bothers you instead of alluding to something???
I think the gal who said she finds herself buying diamonds ''when she has the urge, and later regrets the purchase'',(the paraphrasing is mine), more than proves any assumption or judgement I''ve been accused of making about ''upgrade fever''. For some, it is the ''desire to acquire'' that sparks their constant left hand changes. Which is all I''ve ever really ''alluded'' to in my own posts.
''Here are my assumptions: I assume that people who were married prior to having any real money may want to upgrade at a certain point. I assume that if the guy did a ''surprise!'' engagement, and is okay with the gal changing the setting, etc, they will pick a different ring. I assume that a couple who have been married umpteen years will want to celebrate that, and sometimes they both get a new ring(s). I assume that if a diamond or the setting becomes damaged in some way, that might translate to an upgrade. I assume that if you have 4 or 5 rings in 4 or 5 years; or you''ve simply just changed your mind more than once while engaged . . . well, I assume there are bigger issues at play. ''
Now, puh-lease, point out to me anywhere in my original post is there a judgement or assumption?Both yourself and Rob09 - whom I was of course referring to, but did not quote or name - felt the need to jump to your defence and attack me. If you are so confident in the intention of your posts, why the need for personal attacks. ?
I fail to see how expressing my opinion constitutes ''taking the high road''..
I have no intention of entering a slinging match with yourself and Rob09, as it has no bearing to the original question of this thread, and neither do your ''analysis'' of other posters'' personal lives..Perhaps it is time for some personal reflection on why the practice of women upgrading seems to offend you so, hmm?