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Rough Girdles... What would you do?

mommy2nk

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I just got a 5 stone ring made through a local jeweler. I am really loving everything about the ring and the jeweler was really great. I am also working with him on my new e-ring setting. Here is my SMTB on the ring:
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I went with uncertifed stones (which I am totally fine with) so that I could apply money towards my e-ring. The jeweler knew that I wanted well matched, white, sparkly stones (which I got). The only thing was when I looked at the stones there did seem to be a slight variance in the end two stones but the jeweler said that it wouldn't be noticed once set. I asked if once set if I was unhappy could we exchange the stones and he said it would be no problem. So we proceed with the setting and I was able to have it the day before Thanksgiving. Well I have of course been admiring my ring and while doing so I was also looking at the profile to see if the difference was an issue. As I was doing this I noticed the girdles on 3 of the stones had a white appearance. At first I noticed it only on one of the diamonds and just about freaked out thinking I had chipped it. Then I saw that 3 of them were this way. Then I thought I had somehow scraped three of them but I ran my finger around the entire exposed girdles and it was the same the whole way around. I contacted the jeweler about it and he explained about the girdles, different polishes, etc.. and that we would need to swap out those stones to remedy it. I kind of feel bad because I am very detail oriented and had I know about the different girdle polish I would have mentioned it. When I looked at the stones unset I didn't notice this nor would I have known to ask. I feel bad about making him have to find new stones, unset, and then reset. He really has been great and I just don't know if I should make a big deal or just leave them as is... I do want to say he has been really great working with...
What do you say..
Here is a picture: from left to right the 1,3&4 diamonds..

Edited for spelling errors and such, I was in a hurry! :eek:

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I would not worry about it and enjoy the ring. There is nothing wrong with unpolished girdles.
 
They are bruted girdles. They aren't polished and gives that frosty white line around the girdle. Sounds like he's a great jeweler and wants to make you happy. Love the ring, it's gorgeous. Best of luck.. HTH... :))
 
another ditto to don't worry about it - no real-world effects on performance either way :))
 
I can be a little OCD about jewelry, too. If you love the performance of these stones, I say keep them ... but maybe move stone #4 to the #5 position so it's symmetrical?
 
Thank you so much for commenting. I was leaning toward just leaving them because even with my detailed eye after a few days I hardly noticed the girdle. I came on here to make sure that they indeed were not a issue. I did decide to replace the ended diamond because it is a bit off size wise. Honestly I don't think the typical person would detect it but when it comes to jewelry I have eagle eyes. I feel better about this decision especially since the jeweler knew I wasn't quite sure about the end ones. Funny thing it isn't even the one with the rough girdle, go figure.. Anyway, he truly is a great jeweler and I am so happy that I was referred to him. Hopefully I will be able to send him some business as well, I just need for my friends and family to pick up my jewelry obession!! :Up_to_something: My e-ring should be done hopefully next week. Thanks again!
 
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