OK out with it MonkeyPie!

[ladypirate]

Date: 4/10/2009 2:55:16 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:48:28 PM
Author: fleur-de-lis

Date: 4/10/2009 2:32:34 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:15:27 PM

Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:09:36 PM

Author: decodelighted

Date: 4/10/2009 1:40:16 PM

Author: purrfectpear

Only on PS can you get ''credit'' and kudos for something you aren''t even doing

Heh. I was sort of thinking the same thing. I guess *I* have an open marriage too. (Sure, it would only actually happen if DH met & somehow charmed Jessica Alba into the sack ... or if John Krasinski & I ran into each other in an airplane bathroom or something ... but that''s our ''arrangement''. Nobody judge!!

I also am a Big Game Hunter (untested) and an Competitive Ballroom Dancer (untested). Oh, and I''m *currently* a Vegan (but not now *chomp chomp*).

Deco... I''m not afraid to fight you for him...

I don''t have to fight you guys for John Krasinski, because my DH actually looks just like him

Just with shorter hair ... I feel lucky!

So, Vespergirl, what you''re saying is that if you met the real John Krasinski, you''d be able to actually have the ''John Krasinski Identical Twins Threesome'' fantasy?

You''d REALLY be able to walk away from that???

Wow. No words.

LMAO!!

Ha! Awesome.

 

[MonkeyPie]

The quoting is long but OMG lol, a twin fantasy? What the heck!

 

[vespergirl]

Date: 4/10/2009 2:48:28 PM
Author: fleur-de-lis

Date: 4/10/2009 2:32:34 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:15:27 PM

Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:09:36 PM

Author: decodelighted

Date: 4/10/2009 1:40:16 PM

Author: purrfectpear

Only on PS can you get ''credit'' and kudos for something you aren''t even doing

Heh. I was sort of thinking the same thing. I guess *I* have an open marriage too. (Sure, it would only actually happen if DH met & somehow charmed Jessica Alba into the sack ... or if John Krasinski & I ran into each other in an airplane bathroom or something ... but that''s our ''arrangement''. Nobody judge!!

I also am a Big Game Hunter (untested) and an Competitive Ballroom Dancer (untested). Oh, and I''m *currently* a Vegan (but not now *chomp chomp*).

Deco... I''m not afraid to fight you for him...

I don''t have to fight you guys for John Krasinski, because my DH actually looks just like him

Just with shorter hair ... I feel lucky!

So, Vespergirl, what you''re saying is that if you met the real John Krasinski, you''d be able to actually have the ''John Krasinski Identical Twins Threesome'' fantasy?

You''d REALLY be able to walk away from that???

Wow. No words.

I never said I would walk away from it

 

[MonkeyPie]

Date: 4/10/2009 3:48:55 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:48:28 PM
Author: fleur-de-lis

Date: 4/10/2009 2:32:34 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:15:27 PM

Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:09:36 PM

Author: decodelighted

Date: 4/10/2009 1:40:16 PM

Author: purrfectpear

Only on PS can you get ''credit'' and kudos for something you aren''t even doing

Heh. I was sort of thinking the same thing. I guess *I* have an open marriage too. (Sure, it would only actually happen if DH met & somehow charmed Jessica Alba into the sack ... or if John Krasinski & I ran into each other in an airplane bathroom or something ... but that''s our ''arrangement''. Nobody judge!!

I also am a Big Game Hunter (untested) and an Competitive Ballroom Dancer (untested). Oh, and I''m *currently* a Vegan (but not now *chomp chomp*).

Deco... I''m not afraid to fight you for him...

I don''t have to fight you guys for John Krasinski, because my DH actually looks just like him

Just with shorter hair ... I feel lucky!

So, Vespergirl, what you''re saying is that if you met the real John Krasinski, you''d be able to actually have the ''John Krasinski Identical Twins Threesome'' fantasy?

You''d REALLY be able to walk away from that???

Wow. No words.

I never said I would walk away from it

You might walk you just won''t walk...very well?

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 4/10/2009 3:56:32 PM
Author: MonkeyPie

You might walk you just won''t walk...very well?

Zing!

 

[decodelighted]

Vesper -- Wow! Who knew? You''re a lucky lady!

Elledizzy -- I''m pretty sure I''d have to fight Musey first, so - start forming a line!

 

[vespergirl]

Date: 4/10/2009 3:56:32 PM
Author: MonkeyPie

Date: 4/10/2009 3:48:55 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:48:28 PM
Author: fleur-de-lis

Date: 4/10/2009 2:32:34 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:15:27 PM

Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:09:36 PM

Author: decodelighted

Date: 4/10/2009 1:40:16 PM

Author: purrfectpear

Only on PS can you get ''credit'' and kudos for something you aren''t even doing

Heh. I was sort of thinking the same thing. I guess *I* have an open marriage too. (Sure, it would only actually happen if DH met & somehow charmed Jessica Alba into the sack ... or if John Krasinski & I ran into each other in an airplane bathroom or something ... but that''s our ''arrangement''. Nobody judge!!

I also am a Big Game Hunter (untested) and an Competitive Ballroom Dancer (untested). Oh, and I''m *currently* a Vegan (but not now *chomp chomp*).

Deco... I''m not afraid to fight you for him...

I don''t have to fight you guys for John Krasinski, because my DH actually looks just like him

Just with shorter hair ... I feel lucky!

So, Vespergirl, what you''re saying is that if you met the real John Krasinski, you''d be able to actually have the ''John Krasinski Identical Twins Threesome'' fantasy?

You''d REALLY be able to walk away from that???

Wow. No words.

I never said I would walk away from it

You might walk you just won''t walk...very well?

LMAO!!! You guys are too much

 

[Steel]

My smut-o-meter is making funny sounds. I will have to turn on Little house on the prairie to try and calm it back down.

 

[MonkeyPie]

Date: 4/10/2009 5:55:52 PM
Author: Steel
My smut-o-meter is making funny sounds. I will have to turn on Little house on the prairie to try and calm it back down.

Hey, those farmers got it on all the time - look at all the kids they had!

 

[ladypirate]

Date: 4/10/2009 6:05:54 PM
Author: MonkeyPie

Date: 4/10/2009 5:55:52 PM
Author: Steel
My smut-o-meter is making funny sounds. I will have to turn on Little house on the prairie to try and calm it back down.

Hey, those farmers got it on all the time - look at all the kids they had!

Rawr! Plus, they were always calling their wives "mother"...sounds pretty kinky to me!

 

[musey]

Date: 4/10/2009 5:21:46 PM
Author: decodelighted
Vesper -- Wow! Who knew? You''re a lucky lady!

Elledizzy -- I''m pretty sure I''d have to fight Musey first, so - start forming a line!

though I still haven''t seen him yet, which is quite frustrating, indeed...

 

[AdiS]

Date: 4/10/2009 11:55:10 AM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 11:31:57 AM
Author: AdiS

Date: 4/10/2009 10:39:34 AM
Author: vespergirl
This is a very interesting thread to me. Even though I am in a monogamous marriage, and plan to stay that way, I find the idea of an open marriage intriguing. However, my husband is very traditional, and I know that it would not be right for him, so I would never bring it up. I guess that I believe that human nature makes people more of ''serial monogamists'' than lifetime exclusive partners. I do think that lifetime exclusivity can exist, but I think that it does at the expense of sexual fulfillment. I have read about the science behind this - it''s really only chemically possible to remain sexually enthralled with a single partner for about 7 years. After that, the thrill wears off. People remain faithful because of societal pressure, but not because it''s chemically natural for us to do so.

If I were married to a more sexually adventurous man, I would be open to having sexual encounters outside of the marriage, but since I made the commitment to be monogamous, I will keep that vow. I honestly think that it''s more instinctively natural for people to have sex with multiple partners, even if they decide to conractually partner for life with one individual (marriage). I also do think that marriage is valuable to society, and that''s why the marriage vows should be honored, even if they contradict human nature.

I want to apologize in advance if I sound rude as this is not my intent but I have to completely disagree. I don''t think such generalizations are possible where human nature is concerned.That just sounds wrong. People remain faithful because they love their partner, because they respect him/her and because they''re happy together IMO. And I really don''t think science can tell me for how long it is possible to be attracted to my husband. FWIW I don''t think honouring my wedding vows contradicts my nature either. I still think my husband is the sexiest man alive and wanting him and only him seems pretty natural actually. But we''ve only been together for 6 years

Marriage IMO is not about society, laws, neighbours, relatives, etc. Marriage is between my husband an me. And I choose to remain his and only his because he''s all I ever wanted. That''s pretty much it.

I actually also agree with you, AdiS - even though people are only biologically programmed to stay sexually monogamous for the amount to time it takes to procreate and raise a child to an age of basic independence, we, as the most evolved of the animals, also have developed emotions, ethics, and social mores. We are also capable of love on an emotional level that most animals can''t experience. My point was not that we can''t or shouldn''t stay together after several years, and I think that it''s great that people do that (I plan to with my own husband!) It''s just that I also feel that it''s natural for people who want to move on after a few years. I don''t think that there''s anything wrong with either life choice - so I''m just posting to echo that I agree with you as well, and kudos on your marriage!

Here''s a link to the theory of ''serial monogamy'' I was talking about for anyone who''s interested:
http://www.timeshighereducation.co.uk/story.asp?storyCode=154487&sectioncode=26

Neither do I-you won''t hear a word of judgement from me on anything people do with their lives and their relationships. I have this ''live and let live'' philosophy and if someone feels the need to move on, they certainly shouldn''t stay bounded in a relationship they no longer feel is fulfilling. I was merely pointing out that chemistry and biology can''t explain everything that happens in our lives.
Glad we agree on this one then

 

[LAJennifer]

Date: 4/10/2009 10:57:34 PM
Author: musey

Date: 4/10/2009 5:21:46 PM

Author: decodelighted

Vesper -- Wow! Who knew? You''re a lucky lady!

Elledizzy -- I''m pretty sure I''d have to fight Musey first, so - start forming a line!

though I still haven''t seen him yet, which is quite frustrating, indeed...

Hmmmmm, or maybe you have . . .

 

[musey]

Date: 4/11/2009 4:53:07 AM
Author: LAJennifer

Date: 4/10/2009 10:57:34 PM
Author: musey

Date: 4/10/2009 5:21:46 PM
Author: decodelighted
Vesper -- Wow! Who knew? You''re a lucky lady!

Elledizzy -- I''m pretty sure I''d have to fight Musey first, so - start forming a line!

though I still haven''t seen him yet, which is quite frustrating, indeed...

Hmmmmm, or maybe you have . . .

LOL! You''re right, of course, I''ve stood next to celebrities for extended periods of time without knowing/noticing, and as soon as they leave I get the "OMG didn''t you see who you were standing next to?!" from my friends (I love that we all still get starstruck here). So funny.

But I drive past his house almost every day, and I''m sure I slow down a bit every time without eve meaning to, in the hopes that I''ll catch a glance of his hottitude

We did see Angela Kinsey there the other night, standing at his door. Love her!

 

[elrohwen]

Date: 4/10/2009 2:32:34 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:15:27 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:09:36 PM
Author: decodelighted

Date: 4/10/2009 1:40:16 PM
Author: purrfectpear
Only on PS can you get 'credit' and kudos for something you aren't even doing

Heh. I was sort of thinking the same thing. I guess *I* have an open marriage too. (Sure, it would only actually happen if DH met & somehow charmed Jessica Alba into the sack ... or if John Krasinski & I ran into each other in an airplane bathroom or something ... but that's our 'arrangement'. Nobody judge!!

I also am a Big Game Hunter (untested) and an Competitive Ballroom Dancer (untested). Oh, and I'm *currently* a Vegan (but not now *chomp chomp*).

Deco... I'm not afraid to fight you for him...

I don't have to fight you guys for John Krasinski, because my DH actually looks just like him

Just with shorter hair ... I feel lucky!

Haha, my FI does too, Vesper! Though some people argue that he looks more like Michael Phelps ... He definitely doesn't have the John Krasinski hair though.

 

[ladypirate]

Is John Krasinski the new pie?

 

[vespergirl]

Date: 4/11/2009 11:56:23 AM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 4/10/2009 2:32:34 PM
Author: vespergirl

Date: 4/10/2009 2:15:27 PM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 4/10/2009 2:09:36 PM
Author: decodelighted

Date: 4/10/2009 1:40:16 PM
Author: purrfectpear
Only on PS can you get ''credit'' and kudos for something you aren''t even doing

Heh. I was sort of thinking the same thing. I guess *I* have an open marriage too. (Sure, it would only actually happen if DH met & somehow charmed Jessica Alba into the sack ... or if John Krasinski & I ran into each other in an airplane bathroom or something ... but that''s our ''arrangement''. Nobody judge!!

I also am a Big Game Hunter (untested) and an Competitive Ballroom Dancer (untested). Oh, and I''m *currently* a Vegan (but not now *chomp chomp*).

Deco... I''m not afraid to fight you for him...

I don''t have to fight you guys for John Krasinski, because my DH actually looks just like him

Just with shorter hair ... I feel lucky!

Haha, my FI does too, Vesper! Though some people argue that he looks more like Michael Phelps ... He definitely doesn''t have the John Krasinski hair though.

You know what''s funny? I took my son for a haircut today, and my husband, out of nowhere, said, "now he looks like that guy from the Office" - he''s got the curly "wings" over his ears. I guess I do really have the Krasinski crush if DH looks like him & I gave DS his haircut

 

[elrohwen]

Date: 4/11/2009 1:09:28 PM
Author: vespergirl

You know what''s funny? I took my son for a haircut today, and my husband, out of nowhere, said, ''now he looks like that guy from the Office'' - he''s got the curly ''wings'' over his ears. I guess I do really have the Krasinski crush if DH looks like him & I gave DS his haircut

Haha. FI''s hair is getting long and he kinda gets the wings over his ears too. Though his hair wants to be curly, so when it starts to grow out it kind of poofs out at the sides instead of lying flat. Lol. Oh, and he''s got sideburns (he would''ve fit right in during the 70s), so that''s not very Krasinski like.

You''re so lucky to have your DH *and* your DS look like him

You''ll have to beat the girls off of your son when he''s older (but maybe by then having a crush on John Krasinski will only be for us "old" people ... ).

We should start a John Krasinski look-a-like thread