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On 5/11/2004 2:11:08 AM Consultant wrote:
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On 4/29/2004 1:38:16 PM starfire wrote:
If you think about buying online, there are other variables to think about. A few are within your control. Many are not. Buying from B&M has an equal amount of variables beyond my control too. Eg, If it rains heavily, I can't go to the shop, can I?
Just imagine the convenience of being able to bring your jewelry into a B&M store, and getting it re-sized, cleaned or altered, and even getting a nice cup of hot tea in the process. You can also see and touch a variety of diamonds and jewelry, and feel the heft of the ring that you may be considering.
...and paying for all these services which are automaticaly included in my diamond price. Nothing comes free, remember? In fact, feeling the ring is not an issue because many overseas buyers set their ring locally. You can touch all the rings you want before selecting a setting.
The ability to look at the diamond is definitely a plus. But having said that, some vendors provide such detailed info and pictures on the diamonds that they could more useful that asking a novice to look at a diamond. At least you can ask for opinions from others with numbers. Moreover, shops often have studio lights to mislead customers.
Then imagine doing this with a faceless internet broker who *may* know nothing about goldsmithing or diamond setting, and worrying about *possible* theft, loss-in-transit, damage or even outright fraud and paying courier service rates with insurance, and waiting for several days for the round trip.
Is that worse than facing a jeweller who knows nothing about goldsmithing or diamond setting? Not all the service assistant in big shops are expert golsmiths yo know?
Again, golsmithing is not the issue, many overseas customers set their rings locally, remember? I admit there are risks with overseas purchases. One just have to weigh that against potential gains. Which is why sites like this one exists to help customer reduce the likelyhood of fraud.
Would a reputable internet vendor cheat you of $5k and jeopardise a million dollar revenue? The return policy minimize the risks too.
Shipping risk is real, has anyone lost a diamond in transit before? That would make an interesting story.
Any of the above possibilities when buying online will wreck your day. You are talking about stakes higher than US$100 here, and possibly a *very* upset girlfriend or wife.
To be fair, buying from B&M has it's share of risks too. Worse, there are no forum, price stats or numbers to help you realise you are conned.
If you are dealing with a local B&M store, and you are 'conned', you could complain to CASE (a consumer association), take out a law suit, or just go and yell your lungs out. How do you do that to an unscrupulous online seller? There is no CASE but there are BBB and others. The last time I checked, the US consumer organisations seems to be able to do a bit more than what CASE can do.
When considering buying diamonds online, consider the pros and the cons seriously. Don't be seduced merely by cheap prices. You can't buy a BMW with the amount you pay for a Lada or a Trabant. There is no such thing as a free lunch. Consultant has a great reply to this. But I will add, not everything that is more expensive is better. At least one must know what you are paying for. You said it right, there is no free lunch, all the services, fancy shops, teas, they all cost money.
Best regards,
Stephen Tan
Charlotte Atelier
Singapore
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