RunningwithScissors
Ideal_Rock
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Hello,
In about six months time, my husband and I will be purchasing a new engagement ring. We've been married for 14 years and while I love my husband to the moon and back, I've always disliked my original ring. I'm a serious diamond lover, so this fact has been a bummer! My hubby and I are now thrilled to be looking for my "Forever" diamond ring!
I've been approaching my diamond education in two ways: 1) trying on many rings at higher-end jewelry stores to get a feel for what I like (approximate size/color/shape/setting) and 2) reading all I can about diamonds - I've been lurking on this site.
So apologies in advance, I'm going to be asking lots of questions in the coming months!
First Question:
I understand Brilliance and Fire on an intellectual level (I think), but how do I hone my ability to know exactly what I'm looking at (brilliance or fire or scintillation) when I see a diamond in person? I want to know which trait I prefer since it seems there are trade offs between brilliance/fire. I've tried on about 30 rings in a narrow range (size/shape/quality) from different high end jewelers and only one diamond had a certain amazing intensity that took my breath away. It had incredible, intense, bold sparkles and I want to understand what it was about that diamond that made it stand out to me. I'm thinking it was scintillation. But is scintillation considered fire or brilliance? Or a magical combo of them both? Unfortunately, I didn't get the all the stats on the diamond so I don't have its exact measurements to list for you guys. I guess I could call the jewelry store and see if they could tell me, however they sold the ring soon after I saw it. I remember it being about 2.4 c, G color, VS1, XXX which actually was lower priced and "lower" color/clarity than the other rings at the same store, but this diamond looked night and day more sparkly. (Side note: I'm not going to be buying a ring from this particular jewelry chain because of their giant markup. I'm going to be finding my own diamond through one of your recommended vendors that specialize in super ideal cuts. However, this jewelry store has a nice selection of classic styles in the right size and fairly good quality for me to try on.)
Second Question:
I've read many different posts talking about Super Ideal cut diamonds. I'm interested in this and think I have the budget for it. I've seen people list lots of different companies and their top of the line cut names. Can you guys list them for me again here and tell me your favorites? Some of the posts I've read have been from many years ago -- I can't tell if the favorites from back then are still considered the top ones now. Also, sometimes I get lost with all the abbreviations. I have looked at (online) WF and BGD and I'm okay with their prices.
Here's the type of diamond I'm looking for: round brilliant; 2.4 - 2.75 carats; the best cut I can find (super ideal?) I want the most "sparkle" I can find; G color or higher (I'm very color sensitive and my skin is very pale, so warmer than a G looks bad on me to my eye); the clarity I'm flexible on, but not lower than VS2 -- I may not be able to see the inclusions, but they would bother me anyway; I'm thinking that I prefer no fluorescence but of course I could change my mind if I find one I love. The setting will be either a classic solitaire or have tapered baguettes.
Thanks!
In about six months time, my husband and I will be purchasing a new engagement ring. We've been married for 14 years and while I love my husband to the moon and back, I've always disliked my original ring. I'm a serious diamond lover, so this fact has been a bummer! My hubby and I are now thrilled to be looking for my "Forever" diamond ring!
I've been approaching my diamond education in two ways: 1) trying on many rings at higher-end jewelry stores to get a feel for what I like (approximate size/color/shape/setting) and 2) reading all I can about diamonds - I've been lurking on this site.
So apologies in advance, I'm going to be asking lots of questions in the coming months!
First Question:
I understand Brilliance and Fire on an intellectual level (I think), but how do I hone my ability to know exactly what I'm looking at (brilliance or fire or scintillation) when I see a diamond in person? I want to know which trait I prefer since it seems there are trade offs between brilliance/fire. I've tried on about 30 rings in a narrow range (size/shape/quality) from different high end jewelers and only one diamond had a certain amazing intensity that took my breath away. It had incredible, intense, bold sparkles and I want to understand what it was about that diamond that made it stand out to me. I'm thinking it was scintillation. But is scintillation considered fire or brilliance? Or a magical combo of them both? Unfortunately, I didn't get the all the stats on the diamond so I don't have its exact measurements to list for you guys. I guess I could call the jewelry store and see if they could tell me, however they sold the ring soon after I saw it. I remember it being about 2.4 c, G color, VS1, XXX which actually was lower priced and "lower" color/clarity than the other rings at the same store, but this diamond looked night and day more sparkly. (Side note: I'm not going to be buying a ring from this particular jewelry chain because of their giant markup. I'm going to be finding my own diamond through one of your recommended vendors that specialize in super ideal cuts. However, this jewelry store has a nice selection of classic styles in the right size and fairly good quality for me to try on.)
Second Question:
I've read many different posts talking about Super Ideal cut diamonds. I'm interested in this and think I have the budget for it. I've seen people list lots of different companies and their top of the line cut names. Can you guys list them for me again here and tell me your favorites? Some of the posts I've read have been from many years ago -- I can't tell if the favorites from back then are still considered the top ones now. Also, sometimes I get lost with all the abbreviations. I have looked at (online) WF and BGD and I'm okay with their prices.
Here's the type of diamond I'm looking for: round brilliant; 2.4 - 2.75 carats; the best cut I can find (super ideal?) I want the most "sparkle" I can find; G color or higher (I'm very color sensitive and my skin is very pale, so warmer than a G looks bad on me to my eye); the clarity I'm flexible on, but not lower than VS2 -- I may not be able to see the inclusions, but they would bother me anyway; I'm thinking that I prefer no fluorescence but of course I could change my mind if I find one I love. The setting will be either a classic solitaire or have tapered baguettes.
Thanks!
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