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My Father Died Peacefully on May 16 at Age 96

AGBF

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Hi, all-

I wanted to let you know that my father died peacefully at home on Tuesday at age 96. I did not want to threadjack another thread where I had mentioned this and where some lovely members had started to post messages of support to me. As some of you know, My daughter and I have lived with my father for a number of years now. For the past year we have also had a caretaker, Derrick, living living with us. His love and care helped my father through the difficult last year of his life when he stopped being able to walk at all and hospice care ensured that his last week of life was completely comfortable.

Deb/AGBF
 

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I am so sorry for your loss Deb.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss, Deb. You've been such a devoted daughter; I think you're such a lovely person. I hope you're doing as well as possible, I'm sending good thoughts and hugs your way.
 

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This is from the other thread:

Oh Deb, this is a big message and I am very sorry for your loss. Very sad. In short, you really were the best daughter. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

healing vibes across the miles to you and your family--Sharon
 

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Many condolences, AGBF. How are you feeling? Are you OK? I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you xxx
 

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So sorry to hear your sad news. Big hugs to you & your family.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss Deb. I can only imagine how tough this week has been for both you and your daughter. Hugs, Callie
 

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Big hugs, Deb.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss. :'(
 
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May your father rest in peace. Take Care.
 

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I'm very sorry for your loss, Deb. You provided so well for him, and for so long. Best wishes to you as you move out of this phase of your life.
 

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Ninety-six, not often reached. Glad his end was peaceful. He must have been comforted by having you near. RIP, Deb's dad.
 

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I am so very sorry Deb. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
 

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Deb, my sincere condolences to you and your daughter. Bless you for taking such good care of your father.

Sending comforting thoughts and hugs.
 

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I too am very sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences to you and yours.
 

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Oh Deb I am so sorry and I know it has been hard for you for these past years but you are a saint for being such a loving and caring daughter. My prayers are with you now and always.

Love to you and your daughter my friend.
 

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Hugs Deb.
 

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Sorry for your loss Deb.
 

derbygal

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I'm thinking of you tonight. So sorry for your loss.
 

lilmosun

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Sorry to read his. My thoughts are with you and your daughter.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss.
 

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I could see that you were devoted to helping your dad at to the end of his time. Though we all know it happens, losing a parent is never easy no matter the circumstances. Much love and prayers for your family during this difficult time.
 

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I'm really sorry for your loss Deb, I know it's a very difficult time and I'm sending thoughts of comfort to you and your daughter.
 

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I really, really appreciate the multitude of messages posted here. I am afraid I am unable to say something substantive to each of you, but I want to acknowledge everyone who took the time to post. It was very kind of you.

Tacori-Thank you.
azstonie-Thank you for the good wishes. I believe he is at peace. I am never sure that the living are!
rainwood-I appreciate your kindness.
katharath-I appreciate the compliments and the good thoughts and the hugs. I can always use all of the above.
Sharon-Thank you so much. All requests for assistance will be in your e-mail in box.
jambalaya-Thank you for your good wishes. I think I am OK!
Alex T-Thanks. Hugs back at you.
Callie - thank you for the message and the hugs. You are always so sweet.
Elliot-Thank you.
Sandeek - Thanks!
Queenie-Thanks. we have both had experience as moms and caregivers. It is not always beer and skittles!
VRBeauty-Thank you for your optimism. I hope I domove on!
Anna-I thank you!
Yennyfire-I appreciate your good wishes.
december-fire-Thank you.
MGR-I appreciate your condolences.
red-Thanks. I appreciate the prayers. And having a friend.
Matata-Hugs back at ya. And thanks.
StephanieLynn-Thank you, neighbor!
derbygirl-You are very kind.
House Cat-Thank you!

I love you all!

Deb :wavey:
 

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Sending lots of love and hugs!
 

marcy

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Sorry for your loss, Deb. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 

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I am sorry for your loss.
 
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