Aww, Deb, I am sorry I am late seeing this since I rarely come to Hangout! I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father but am thankful it was peaceful. Hugs to you.
Deb, I'm so sorry for your loss of your father, and I echo diamondseeker in that I am glad that he died peacefully. I hope you have wonderful memories of your father to wrap yourself in.
It sounds like it was time. I can think of nothing better as a parent when knowing I was dying, than having my incredibly thoughtful and caring child love me so much as to be there for me. Deb, what a gift you gave for all of you.
You've been through so much and you are clearly so strong. I hope you have time now to have some emotional breathing space and soon, time for you.
Deb, sending you lots of love and comforting wishes. I'm here if I can ever do anything--I mean that very sincerely. Your memories of sharing politics and New Yorker stories is really lovely. It is wonderful to be able to share that with a parent. Sending you love again.
I am very sorry to hear that. In my case I was most worried that my father would have a long, difficult death. We brought in Hospice. (He did not have cancer.) The end was quick and totally pain-free. After seeing what my mother endured, I cannot tell you how at peace I was to see this. Hopsice made a huge difference. They really knew what they were doing.