emeraldlover1
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Thanks Mer...I tried.Date: 11/3/2008 10:17:23 PM
Author: meresal
Smurfy, you asked for peoples opinions. Maybe no one was saying anything at first, because they didn''t want to say anything mean.Date: 11/3/2008 6:11:57 PM
Author: Smurfysmiles
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come on you guys, seriously nothing? you can say it sucks, just say SOMETHING! lol
You should do whatever you want. It''s your wedding. You don''t have to have theme, and you like the colors so use them. Everyone here was trying to help, because that is what we ALL ask for when posting.
''i don''t think it would have killed you to thrown in something nice to offset the criticism because i know i must have at least one thing that looks fine but that is something i have grown to accept with this site .'' - IMO, this comment was totally uncalled for.
ETA: I think that EL1 had some great ideas to help you blend the two feels and really tried to help explain what everyone else was trying to say.
Smurf...you are right, people probably won''t remember a lot of your choices. However, people do remember what they hated and what they loved. I remember so many details about my aunts wedding at she got married 15 years ago. Yes, you and your fiance have to love it but if it looks out of place people will remember. This forum is great to ask for non biased opinions because that is what you will get. No one in my family or my fiance''s family has said that they don''t like my ideas. And why would they, it would just be rude. I know you are excited about all the thought you put into this stuff but we are all in the same boat. No one is intentionally trying to hurt your feelings they just want to help.