HollyS
Ideal_Rock
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- Jul 18, 2007
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She is your sister. She confided in you. You don''t have to approve; and you are in a position to influence her -- as long as you don''t ''tattle'' on her.
If anyone is going to tell her husband, it had better be someone who is not a family member. Blood relative or not. Besides, if she keeps this up, the truth will come out. Just wait, an implosion is right around the corner.
If you can''t stand being around the situation, remove yourself and tell her why. Be absolutely clear with her that you do not agree with her actions, and will not help her lie to her husband. Tell her that you will no longer be someone she can ''tell her dirty little secrets to''. Maybe if she has no one to share her spicy details with, it will be less fun for her.
If anyone is going to tell her husband, it had better be someone who is not a family member. Blood relative or not. Besides, if she keeps this up, the truth will come out. Just wait, an implosion is right around the corner.
If you can''t stand being around the situation, remove yourself and tell her why. Be absolutely clear with her that you do not agree with her actions, and will not help her lie to her husband. Tell her that you will no longer be someone she can ''tell her dirty little secrets to''. Maybe if she has no one to share her spicy details with, it will be less fun for her.