krispi
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Wow, I didn't realize how similar our stories were until I went back and read some of your other posts. I'm sorry you had to go through that as well. Yes, it's been a struggle at times, and yes it has made both of us stronger. It sounds like we've gone on to meet guys who are much better for us! I hate that you have to be in this position currently, but just like you got through all that, you'll get through this too.Date: 8/12/2008 1:06:28 AM
Author: hairgirl95
HI everyone--
Sorry for being incognito the past day--I am having some computer issuesand it wasn't letting me access my internet!! I hate when this happens!
Anywho--just to update all of you, I am having lunch with my sister tomorrow. I am putting my foot down and telling her that any information pertaining to her multiple affairs is her own burden to carry from here on out. I am telling her I want to hear and know nothing further about her immoral activities. As for telling her husband, I still working on the plan for that. I think its something I have to plan flawlessly since there are so many people that will be affected by this. Rest assured, I am taking all of your wonderful posts and advice into account here when deciding just how to proceed with this. I have had many thoughts, but I need to get them organized into a concrete arrangement. I hope this makes sense--I feel like I am rambling here!
Firecracker---could you further elaborate as to why you might suspect sexual/physical abuse? I ask this because it is something I have had as a worst case scenario fear, and there are some weird things that my 4 year old niece does that I cannot really explain. I'll post some of those things later. Can you tell me some things that I should be looking for? I will say this, one weird thing she does is put her finger into her rectum. This has happened a few times, as recently as around 3 months ago. I was worried about it when my sister told me, and I STRONGLY encouraged her to take my niece to see a psychologist, but my sister refused. Really frustrated me. After reading your reply though, it makes me think and really worry. Any other info you could give me would be really great. There is several men (her boyfriends but family friends and relatives as well) that do spend time around both my nieces. I just hope and pray that these affairs are the worst things going on. If something was happening to either of those girls, I don't know WHAT I would do. It would not be pretty. Thanks in advance for your help.
RBlover--thanks sweetie--I really appreciate your support. I posted on your topic earlier as well, before my internet booted me off again! I hope you and your sis are getting things worked out as well. I haven't had a chance to follow up with your post yet.
Princess--as always, thank you for your continued support. You are so sweet!
Krispi---were you married to my ex-husband??!! WOW, our stories are scarily similar! I think we saw some similarities in earlier posts if I remember right. Just know that I am sending you big hugs for the road you had to travel as well. Its a struggle as you know, but you and I are strong girls--and the struggles make us stronger.
Shelly228--sounds like you have a full plate with your friend! Good luck with all that as well. Its not a fun burden.
LuckyTexan---yep, serious Springer S*IT!! My scandalous sister kinda makes me feel like a piece of trash just thinking about what she has done. The sad part is she was raised WAAAAAY better than she is acting. She has no excuse. We have parents who were great role-models and there is no reason for her to act like this. But yes, I got a serious chuckle out of the Springer comment. I have referred to this situation by that name maaaaaany times.
Miracles----girl, I cannot thank you enough! You have been such a great support to me on this thread. You are truly a smart and compassionate woman. I am so fortunate to have your wonderful advice here. My sympathies to your friend in his situation. I am so glad you talked to him and passed it along to me. Also, I hope the reunion went GREAT!! Let me know if you used the extensions!
Freke, Diamondfan, Lara, AGBF--thank you all as well for your continued support. I really appreciate everything I have read on here and all the great advice. You are all great!!
I'll let you all know how lunch goes tomorrow. My hands are sweating already just thinking about how this will go. I promise to post and catch you up after lunch tomorrow.